Fake Human Relations war

We all try to keep everyone satisfied. We try to keep everyone by our side. Unfortunately, that’s impossible.

For me it looks like a war. Sometimes I sit by myself thinking, why can’t everything be easy?? Why can’t we just be true and happy?? 

Human nature is greedy. We technically want everything for the minimum loss. That can’t happen because we can’t have everything. Same with people. We want everyone to be our friend. We want that perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. We want those awesome parents. We want those ideal people we see in movies and tv shows. But basically, they don’t exist. We expect much that makes us hardly accept the truth.

And when I said in the title ” Fake Human Relations War” I meant it. Because if the relation is true there won’t be a war. I mean by war when you do everything to make this relationship works or to stay friends. If that relation is true you won’t have to do anything to survive it. 

Those relationships and friendships are costly too. I don’t mean costly as “money” I mean in “emotions” “pressure”. They keep us doing the maths all the time and thinking about our next action or word hundreds of times before actually doing them. That makes so much pressure on our feelings, emotions and sometimes they can cost us our jobs, other people who truly love us, and more awesome physical things..

Honestly, don’t run after someone you want. The person who loves you so much and wants you will try everything to reach you, he will help you when u need it without asking the help. He will forgive you most of the time. Moreover, you will have a free relationship or friendship with no hate or calculations of your actions and it will be fun! 

Don’t search for perfection. Search for peace, love and more importantly happiness 🙂

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna xx

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