Praise your ideas

Having different thoughts and ideas doesn’t require to be liked by everyone. Your ideas are your secret weapons, you have them but you don’t know how they work.

Those ideas and thoughts can be awesome or destructive but you don’t know. By the human nature we just believe that we are right  all the way. But are we actually right? Going through life meeting different people and different minds on the way made me learn much about the human mind. From what I experienced is that who holds for their ideas are either hiding a proof for being so true or they know nothing and they just support what they are told to support, maybe brainwashed. This type of people are never going to go places. In other words, who are going to believe you if you can’t prove it?

Therefore, praise your ideas! You owe people an explanation but they are free to take it or not, same is you. Never be forced for an opinion or an idea unless it can cause such a crisis. That includes the ideas of a person you like or love. Not because you are best friend with someone or dating that person you should agree to everything they say. They are not laws or god’s words and if they don’t respect that then they don’t deserve your respect or admiration too.

Being different can be a blessing or a curse, the key is in choosing what you want it to be. Be the person who would be proud of when you see his/her reflection in the mirror. That very moment when you realize who you want to be and who you are is the moment when your ideas an take you places. Just free them like doves. Let them fly high and achieve what can make our world a better place, your world.

Remember those words Be Who You Are And Praise Yourself

What ideas you have that took you places and made your world better?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Enjoy a book but don’t live it

Reading is such a joy that most of us can’t resist. Currently, I am reading such a great book that I actually read it everyday, day and night, at every moment i can open it.

( In case you want to know the book’s name it’s Red Queen with it’s series, I actually enjoy it so much)

Some books gives me the sensation of actually dumping my life to live between their pages. Like whenever i am reading and duty calls like school or work I curse under my breath. Back to the real world! It’s like those books’ fantasy and exciting life grabs me along and all I have to do is obey. Like whenever I leave the book I feel itchy yo get back to it, as if it drugged me with it’s magic. I know it’s a weird expression but that’s how it exactly makes me feel.. Does anyone feels the same like me?? 😀

However, that can’t last long especially when you reach the last page of the book or worse, the whole series. You want to know when it really aches?! WAITING! Who doesn’t hate waiting for the next book of the series or the next season of the TV Show or the next movie in the series. It’s that annoying waiting to know how your favorite people in your favorite world.

At the end of the day, the least you can relate your life to the life you read about is a wallpaper on your phone or PC. Therefore, don’t get engrossed in a world of fantasy and imagination, just enjoy it to the max. Enjoy it enough to shift your mood in a bad day but not to shift your world and make it full of deadline delays. Instead, try to benefit from the book. Take from it a words to use in your next lesson or even date :D. Or even know a trick 😉 😀 Just learn anything from it and enjoy it but don’t let it affect your life as if it’s an addiction.

What is your favorite book?? Do you feel the same though?? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

we don’t have to be understood 24/7

God created us in differently, so we are not like each other to know what each other think. We are not twins or triplets to get what the other person is thinking.

Most people , and me myself, search for that person who can understand us or wish that people understand our actions and talking. Let’s get this straight! the only person who might actually understand you is either your twin or soulmate and if you are lucky enough it would be your partner. However, they won’t also completely understand you all the time. Therefore, you don’t have to worry about explaining your actions or talking as long as it makes your life easier . It’s not a law that when you say your opinion about something or someone to say why unless you are asked or want to show your point of view. There is also no punishment in losing someone over a misunderstood and that you have to fight to reason why you did this.

Life is so short to look in the teeny tiny detail of our life and give a reason for it to people. If you followed or unfollowed someone on social media you don’t have to say the whole story behind it. Enjoy your new haircut or look, you don’t have to explain why you dyed your hair pink to each person you meet for at least a week. Like what’s the point? There are more important stuff in life to actually state a reason for and let people understand like your achievements or high marks. Those ones are the ones that you should say how and why you got them so people can be inspired and move on to higher places in their life.

I also hate when people just think that they are right and everyone else is wrong or they know everything not like anyone else. Sometimes, that can be a prove of how stupid they are. Like if you want to learn more and be the best as you want you have to open your mind and understand everything around you even if it makes you wrong. It’s fine to be wrong by the way, as long as you learn and correct it.

Misunderstanding can end up as a fight and the end of a relationship. At the point, I think it’s great to end the relationship as fast as you can but if the misunderstanding is huge like about a way of life, one doesn’t respect the other or so on. Because it doesn;t matter how long you will try to fix it up, it will end up with a fight.

At the end of the day what I am trying to say here that don’t expect people to understand every move you do and sometimes they are going to blame you, just don’t listen to them. Keep moving on. You are not obligated to explain yourself as long as you see you don’t need to.

Do you ever get annoyed when people just see that they are right and they are actually wring and fight for that wrong concept they have ?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Let’s call for break

With all what’s going around from new events changing the world or small even life ones. We all deserve a break even if for a minute that barely can noticed to have a quick look on what we’ve done so far.

For example,if you are at work or school make the world stop for a minute to restore your inner energy and peace. I can hear you asking how do I stop the world around me? That’s stupid! Well, apparently not. Take a moment and forget about who you are where you are or what you are doing. Just a moment, it can be a second, a minute or even 30 minutes as long as you can afford. All you have to do in this moment is to find an inner peace in you, forgetting everything.. well it’s better not to forget your timing or that you are still a human being who needs to stop at a point to complete your life. That’s my type one of mini breaks which is kinda of a meditation way.

Type 2! Try to always keep your favorite drinks at home or work or like around you. Drinking or eating something you like even if a biscuit or a cup of coffee can  help you to cop up with the day without any of the famous words ” Gosh! That’s so boring” or ” I am so sick of this” because actually I found out that pressure can only reduce your energy and level of satisfaction. Keep always the spirit of ” let’s do this !” or ” It’s just about to be done” if it’s that boring actually because when you pretend to love the thing you do or have, makes you enjoy it more! My mum used to always tell me to take care of my dolls and toys because they actually feel and sense and if you treated them badly they will be broken fast. So is the human soul and body, if you didn’t give it the time it needs to heal or have some rest it will be ruined just that easy and that fast.

I don’t think you need to know about the long breaks because we actually know them, which are THE HOLIDAYS! However, you don’t have to go to the Caribbean or such a costly place to enjoy your holiday or long breaks. Sometimes, I don’t get the chance to travel some where or even leave the house, but I try always to have the break by movie nights, learning new cooking recipes or draw or anything that make my spirit up and happy.

Just remember to always take the break because your body and soul are like the machine, if you of didn’t take good care of them they will be worn out easily.

What was your best holiday so far??

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Impress yourself first

As a student in high school and the only child, I’ve been give the responsibility of impressing people and mostly my mum and dad. That’s how I was raised on. However, as we grow up we learn new things and realize that we have to change some habits.

Therefore, now when I work on my assignment, project or study for an exam I no longer do it to impress my teachers of parents, but myself. I realized that the habit that my parents have always taught was a way to make get high marks so they can be proud of me. But what if I am not that proud of myself? We all get forced for stuff we didn’t get the chance to even notice we are forced for. Like Your name, nationality and so on. I don’t mean that those things should be changed but why not if you wanted to? You can’t live and keep things you don’t want, right?

Let’s also take a moment to think about the world we live right now. As I notice some people care more about people’s opinions more than themselves. Like high school. Oh god.. High school. The main place to talk about impressing. Not only about study, exams or whatever educational processes. Let’s talk about girls who wears full make up or do their hair for guys or guys who goes to the gym and so on to impress girls. Look, if you want to go to the gym or wear make up, then do it for yourself. I don’t say that you should be looking awful or dressing bad. ABSOLUTELY NOT! You should be the BEST you can be, but for YOURSELF now anyone else.

Let’s get this straight, who is the one who works hard to make you the best? Your body and brain! Who feels the pain more than anyone or anything in the world? Your heart, body and soul. So basically, it’s YOU who deserves to be impressed the most!

On the other hand, sometimes we have to impress people like a interviews, or a meeting or your boss( in terms of working ha to get promotion 😉 ) or the person you love because actually that will make them love you more and you want that love! 😉 😀

So to sum this up! Just be who you are as I always say don’t put so much effort for someone who doesn’t care that much! Put yourself first and make the rules as you go 😉 :D.

Questions! But this time it’s for fun not only tips 😀
Have you ever tried to impress someone and it turned all wrong 😀 ??

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

It’s okay to miss them

Most of us have that person we miss somewhere in the world. Sometimes it might be in our imagination or even gone forever. Most of the time we wish we could see them in real instead of cameras or video calls. I am here to  tell you that it’s okay to miss somebody. It’s even more okay to cry over them. I won’t tell you like other people to stay strong and everything is going to be fine, because actually that’s a thing that no one owns or knows except you.

Missing somebody can be painful and more painful if you might never see them again. It’s okay to wet your pillow at night but still it’s your decision to make. It’s your decision to be strong or weak. It’s you who can make things fine or worse everyday. I know that moving on is hard and for some people it’s almost impossible. Just think about it and ask yourself these questions. Is it worth it? Will crying everyday will get that person back?  Is that affecting my life?? If your answers are No No Yes then you got to STOP! As long as the sun is still shinning, be grateful!

Remember them with good, even if they did the bad to you. Don’t let their memories break you, just learn from it. It’s a chance, you don’t lose people over fights everyday :D. Don’t be scared of losing them or being separated. Be who you are, even if you want to panic over them, go on! But just do a favor to people and don’t panic over them in public :D.

Spaces between lovers and friends can be hard, but if they honestly love and appreciate each others it would be the relief. It’d be like when you know you are having a party next week and you are preparing for it the whole week. When it’s time, it’s the best feeling you can have. Keep in mind how happy you would be when you see them and believe me, it’s worth the waiting.

I have no much to say this blog because it’s all about feelings that can’t be described in words, only in hearts and souls. I hope This blog helped you a bit though..

Do you have any tips as well?? Have you met your missed one soon?? How was the meeting??

Always welcomed to corner,

Menna Xx

An E-mail to my future self

Hello my future self,

Do you remember me?? Off course you do! Basically I am the older version of you. The original.

I hope everything is going well and that you are having that life you’ve always wished for and worked for every day.I can’t wait to know what happened but I wish they are all good stuff and will be impressed by who you became. I am at the time of you struggling but don’t worry I won’t give up on you. I am still working towards what we’ve always dreams of. I know that I won’t get a reply for my letter, but I want you to know that I have so much questions for you. But it’s okay, I’ll wait for them 😀

I want you to know that changing is okay. That’s how life goes just keep changing to the best you can be. Oh! Please Don’t listen to whatever people tell you from being useless or hopeless. You can’t satisfy everyone, therefore you are the one who you should satisfy. Remember that I’ll always be here working and supporting you till I get to the point of meeting you. Be happy and positive, enjoying your life.Can I ask you a favor too?? Would you please surround you with people who love you before you loving them.

I think I am have nothing more to say, but all I can say is that I am waiting on fire to meet you so please make me pleased with who I’ll meet. 🙂

Love,

Your old little version 😉 😀

Write yours too and see what you got be writing to your future self 😉 😀

(Tag me please to see them if you can 🙂 )

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Changing doesn’t mean scaring you

We all change as we go through life. We get older and life teaches us a lot more than we know everyday. So we change to cope up with what we learn. Most people get scared of changing or gets afraid to change, why do you get scared?? It’s how life goes.

Changing can make you lose and gain people. I think that’s the common reason why people are afraid of changing. However, I need to tell you something, you can’t make everyone happy and you can’t stop from changing. Therefore, don’t be afraid of losing people or interests because it doesn’t matter how hard you try to keep everything as it is, it will never work. It’s like you are on board of a train that is travelling across the world, and you are staying till the end of the trip. You will meet new people as you go and they will leave you at a point to get to their stations. You will also learn new details everyday about a new person, a new place or a new thing! You might hate a place you used to like so much and love a place you used to hate so much. That’s life! Even nature changes! The day changes from morning to night!

Don’t give up easily or take hold of something you really have to let go so you can keep going. Life can be kind to you sometimes, but remember that everything changes so is life. Be careful of who you are friends with today because no one knows what the future holds. So if you take all your precautions, get ready to change and don’t stop it, it’s nature. However, try always change to the best you can and if you had to let go of something or someone, just do it with no regrets because i am sure you will meet a better person or get a better thing. Just keep going and don’t let anger or sadness take control of you.

Oh! One more thing! NEVER EVER believe what you see or hear and build a whole future on. Rumors and lies are just faster than dust to transfer through air. Just believe half you see and half you hear but still don’t build a future on it. Like if a colleague of you told you that the manager is leaving and you are the next in row, just check it yourself or better don’t believe it at all until the time just keep the information there not trusted.  Remember that as fast as you build it it will be blown up.

Have you ever was afraid of changing and it actually was the best for you??

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Never regret it

We all loss things and people on our journey of life whether it’s by our choice or just letting go. I know it can be hard to get over it and move on, but do we have choice? Therefore, never regret your decisions, or your loss.

Sometimes losing people can be the best to have. They might be stopping you from progress and success. They might also be a source of negative energy. Like who wants that? You also might have been a pain to them like always know they if you both left each other by choice and never get to think of getting back together again, that might be the best for both of you. Maybe you don’t match or can’t get along, there is nothing wrong with that at all! We are different and that’s how it makes us all unique. Even if the way of losing each other might be bad like a fight or something. Try to end it later in a better way if not getting back together. However, if it didn’t work again just let it go so you both can stop fighting and go forward.

Same thing with decisions. If I’ve learned something through my life, especially lately when it’s the time of making my decisions for life, is that never regret a decision or change it unless it’s actually proved to be completely wrong. You made it and you are responsible for it.  Whatever was it’s outcomes, if it’s good or bad, just know that that’s what your fate wants and holds for you. Changing them also can cause such a miss like changing plans in a business for example can cause a corruption and a huge loss. Same for anything in life, if you decided to do it ,and nothing is wrong with it, do it! Always remember that the chance comes once in a life time.

SIMPLY, don’t regret anything in your life, because it’s your fate instead of it try to make it  better that will actually make things better fast and without the pain of guilty and over thinking.

Have you ever regretted anything and it came out i wasn’t worth it?? What was it?? 😀

Back to the wheel of life

Tomorrow is my first day back to school after the Christmas break holiday. Although it wasn’t actually a holiday to me as I worked and studied in it and like hanged out in a month for about 3 or 4 times but still it was a cool one but stressful. I don’t know about you if it’s your first day tomorrow for school or work tomorrow too but i wish you all the best of luck. 🙂

Everyday is a new day and a new start to be better and happier. Well, we all dislike work or school, let’s say mostly 😀 . However, we all agree that we want to make everyday a progress so I thought I might tell you about my tips and plan to make this new start of a new semester a progress and happier to me, maybe It helps you 🙂

We all know the famous quote of live, laugh, love. In fact, I am not going to make it just a quote on my wallpaper anymore. I am making it real 😀

Laugh more, love more so we can live more. Easy, right ?? Let me tell you more about it 😀 . Don’t cry or be sad longer than it takes. Sadness makes life stop and makes us taste it’s bitterness rather than it’s sweetness. Why so?! Lately I realized it doesn’t deserve! If someone left us and walked away either by their choice or not, remembering and crying over them doesn’t help but moving on really does. All we can wish for at that point is to meet them again someday in a happier and cheerful part of our lives. Love also never was only for lovebirds.Love is for everything in life. As your favorite shirt, food, friends, family and off course your BF/GF. So don’t be sad if your single, actually you should enjoy it 😀

Therefore, now tell me what else left to make you hate living or live less lively?? Be the spirit! Like who cares if today was a stormy day, maybe tomorrow is the day of rainbows and happy rains. Always wish for the best and keep your head and heart have those sweet smiles that makes a dull drawing a masterpiece of it’s colours !

Now! Are you still upset of anything happened ?? If you are or are not , just remember that tomorrow is a new start to achieve success and perfection 😉