Miracles can be true if you believe

We all dream of that perfect life. Actually I do all the time. I’ve always convinced myself what I am living now is just the preparation of something great coming.

Most people say that miracles are gone long ago. For me I think they are not completely gone but they are a bless that not everyone get the chance to have them. Who knows?Maybe you are the next blessed person. But what I really know that those blessings are given to chosen people. People who work hard, who have that kind of believe and faith. As they say in Christmas and fairies, if you really believe in them, they will come to you. That might be sentences said to children, but there are some for adults as well. Do you believe in miracles?

When I say miracles I don’t mean those ones like Cinderella’s or Disney tales. I mean the miracle of success, love, happiness. Those are adults miracles. Not a lot have them. If you have them then you are blessed. If you don’t then no worries! If you believed in their existence they will come to you. For example the miracles of success. How do you believe in the miracle of success? In my opinion, it’s when you go to work everyday, work hard, believing that the best is yet to come. Believing that what you are doing today is going to turn to a promotion or high marks for example. Because if you didn’t believe and said that life doesn’t deserve and you go everyday lazy, having no motivation to start your day, do you expect a high salary or a promotion?

To be honest with you as I’ve always been, I started to lose that hope these days. I started to stop believing. I used to enjoy going to school or work everyday. I used to always start my day with that happy high smiles on my face. Me myself used to look in the mirror and say ” It’s going to be your best day and if it wasn’t, don’t worry it’s not the end still there are more day to come”. Nowadays, I started skipping school, less work and all the time I am nervous with low energy. However, I think I am starting to gain my power again. How? Let me tell you a secret. 😉

Any human being is like anything needs to be charged. But the difference is that to charge a human you need to fulfill many things in order to be 100% charged. You need to charge your body first and then your soul. Charge your body by resting, eating well and maybe some workout. Charging your soul by enjoying yourself for sometime, watch something you like and go out with friends. So when you find yourself unhappy or starting to stop believing, know that your battery needs to charged and charge it as best as you can. If even by walking in the open air and eating a bar of chocolate or sitting there for at least an hour doing nothing. You deserve it! Because believe me you are a hero who can have and do miracles 🙂

Any ideas of recharging? 😉 😀 And do you believe in miracles? At least simple ones?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

In case you are asking why we change

Everyday we learn new things and lessons that give us either shocks of who we are. These lessons re-shape us. Sometimes if sharpen or soften us.

We all come to the points when we think that we know ourselves so much. At this very moment is the moment where the change starts. No ones knows who is the person who is going to come out. We are always taken away by the wind to a new place in our minds that we know nothing about. Such as the moments we fall in love, we go away, when we lose the people we love and once we thought nothing can break us away. When we give promises that we are sure that we are going to keep but they are always broken. Secrets that we swore that we are going to take them with us to the grave but they escape us so early.

That’s human nature. That’s how life flows. Nothing stays as they’ve always been and if it stayed then there’s either a lie or a hidden truth you can’t see or refuse to see. Let things go as they are meant to be. Don’t stop a person from leaving or loving. Just don’t be scared to change. You might change to worse off course, but what’s more important is why? Why you changed to the worse or better? Some events gets either the best or the worst of us. Such as break ups, the lose of someone we love or the lose of our success or jobs. Sometimes those things makes from us stronger better people and sometimes it reveals the dark side in us.

What I am trying to say here is that don’t get upset or sad if someone told you ” Oh my god! You changed so much”and don’t blame anyone who changed. We all have that hidden part in our lives that non knows about it. We should respect that change and either advice that person and cope up with this change and make the best of it. As I always say we can’t make everyone satisfied and loving us and we can’t keep everyone by our side. We lose some people and will know others on the journey of life. Few only who will stay and those people are the ones we should always take care of.

Have you ever came to the part of your life that you changed so much at??How did you cope up with it? 🙂

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Free yourself

We are all prisoners of our busy lives. But do we really want to stay prisoners? Can we have our freedom back?

I know that if we answered yes to the questions above means destroying at least a small part of our lives and causing damage to our career life or so on. But we want to say no, don’t we? Therefore, I think that being busy and having such a crazy life with different meanings can get us to the max of our energy. I’ve always respected the idea of working life or busy social life and have been following yet since I was a child. However, as I grow up I realized that this much respect can lead us to the edge of the cliff.

I thought about the idea of achieving status, success and happy life. Those are the profit of all the sad and stressed nights we live. They come in the end true, but they come late. So let’s take a second and think of our day. How it goes? If you are in that young age then I am pretty sure that your day goes with at least one problem. That’s what makes life cool and makes the adrenaline flow in our body. However, sometimes we are not pleased with the sense. So! I thought of controlling this sense or to be more specific make this sense flow of happiness if needed. Off course stress needed and anger, actually without them we might get crazy because we need to always balance our emotions. But we need to balance it, nit crying or shouting 24/7.

I’ve always loved new experiences, surprises, knowing new people. Sometimes, fulfilling this need can be hard or even impossible due to whatever prison I am at if work of education. I tried always to find space for it anyway. Like I might be having exam tomorrow but there’s a new movie to watch. In this case I plan my studying hours for the day and make space for time to watch that movie, because I know that if I didn’t do that I would be upset and I won’t do good in the exam. C’est La Vie! You plan your life for working, family, friends but make sure that you always get out of that prison of the life cycle. People get weaker and worse if left in prisons for so long 😉

How do you free yourself from your prison? 😉 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

You are the only one who owns your remote control

We are controlled by so many things and human being, that’s a fact! Since birth we are controlled by our nationality, type, and so on. Somethings can be changed but some don’t.

Off course sometimes people should control us as if we are sick, angry, the boss at work, the teacher at school and so on. That’s completely acceptable, but that control also extend to limits. For example, not because you are working for someone you can let them scream at your face or order you to do something not related to your job and you do it, scared to be fired. You might actually do it but because you want to do it or as a favor but not as an obligatory order. That’s completely understood because at that time it’s you who made the choice. But you don’t have to be a slave to keep your job! I mean there are other jobs that’s not the end of the world. Even if there aren’t, would you really respect yourself when you look in the mirror? Will you accept seeing you controlled and obligated to do something you don’t want to do just to have money or high rank??

Look, reaching your goal either money, power or even someone doesn’t require you to scarify so much of your pride. If there is something I learnt in this life is that if you let your pride and respect go then nothing will go right. Believe me whatever you want all you have to do is to work hard to get as long as you can, keeping yourself safe and happy, if it’s actually meant to you and your destiny then you will have it no matter what. That’s how life goes anyway. Before doing anything or taking any decision always think of what might happen after it, if it’s good or bad and you can take it’s responsibility.

When I say control I know that we should be controlled but always to a limit. Always to the way we want to be controlled. More importantly, is that what control you even if by your own choice never let it ruin you or your life because it did that means bad obsession and you have to let go of it before it destroys you. Remember always that we are the best to make mistakes :D. We are human beings not angels or prophets or even anything near that perfection. However, we are not devils too but if you kept on doing the mistakes and didn’t correct it, that’s how we become devils and fall in a hole full of pain and sins.

Did you even get rid of something controlling you wrongly? What was it?? And what you did?? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

 

Surround yourself with happy thing (maybe people sometimes)

I know that the title seems weird (not the first time though) but as they say don’t judge a blog by it’s title :D. we all have that mood when we are so pissed off, sometimes even with no reason. Some of us call their beloved ones to tell them what’s wrong. Lately, I found that might not be the best solutions.

I figured out that those people we call, it doesn’t matter how much they love you or you love them, are also humans who have troubles and pissed just like you. If they love you much they would listen to you but that might make them more sad or annoyed but they won’t tell you. Others will shut you or excuse for anything just to hang the phone up. Therefore, the best thing is to keep each other’s negative energy and anger separated.

So I said to myself wait a minute.. If people can’t help (most of the time), then what about things?  What about my cheer up playlist? Happy Movie list? 😀

I started keeping my favorite music in a place that whenever I want it I get it, like phone USB, and so on. I started organizing my Movie CDs of folders on PC by my favorite, happy ones first. Same with my closet, accessories, BOOKS! Those are my REAL escape. I also started collection pillows and pillow cases. I know that you might think I am a weirdo now, but i found that when I sleep of sit with a comfy pillow or favorite pillow with it’s case beside my kicking it, sleeping on it, relaxes me so much :D. Perfumes as well proved to change moods. So I always try to buy those perfumes that when I sniff them I feel like ” THAT’S THE ONE!” :D.

To sum up the tips that blog has on how to basically make yourself happy or at least satisfied:

  • Music
  • Movies
  • Books
  • TV Shows
  • Favorite Clothes, pillows, perfumes and so on.
  • Don’t bother people because they will never care for you as you do 😉

Any other tips :D?? I’d love to know as well as everyone else 😀

Always welcome to the corner,

Menna Xx

Do it and don’t wait for it

If you have the intention to do something do it or you will lose interest in it and as a result you will lose a new skill or chance as well. That’s human nature!

A very good example about this is the gym for example :D. We all be like from the beginning of the year I won’t miss a day to have a healthy body. Then we end up going one day and missing 364 other days. About that body goals dream? It will never happen that way. It used to happen with me every single year, maybe day. I want to do or learn something but instead I let the circumstances stop me and the year pass without any progress.

Therefore, I decided from this year to not ever miss a day in the gym. To never miss an opportunity of progressing and gaining new skill or chance. Because if I didn’t do that I won’t have what I want. It won’t be served to me on a silver plate. I have to work hard for it and like it! That at the end of it when I achieve it I can say ” I DID IT!”

At the beginning, it seemed so hard to do. Work/school everyday, either to study or take care of home after that and so on, the responsibilities that our life has been always full of. I started scheduling my time and change that routine of everyday.  Sometimes I can be stopped by losing track of time or an emergency. I tell myself that’s fine! But only one time to miss not every time. I started also sharing this with other people. For example, I convinced my mum to go with me to the gym. This way me and her can encourage each other to go. You can do the same with you roommate, partner, children ( that’s a good one to encourage you because once they are convinced with something it’s hard to be stopped, the power of children I call :D) or even parents like me( and I know that one seems silly for some people but it works! :D).  That way you might end up with a common thing to share as well which strength your bond.

When you have the intention to do something, don’t hold it back and say “busy” or “can’t”. Non of the successful people say those two words. Even if they are busy they do it to make them busier but happier and more successful.

Always remember that your soul, mind, and body have some right on you to be satisfied and happy.

What was the thing you wanted to learn and couldn’t learn it because of crazy life?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Your success doesn’t depend on them

Writing this blog is more of a relief to me to an advice to you guys. I’ve spent my whole life surrounded by people who for some reason I don’t understand what they mean when they pat on my back and say ” Well done!”. I mean sometimes I feel they don’t really mean it. Sometimes, I feel if it’s like hate or jealousy, a feeling I can’t distinguish.

However, they won’t make me any difference right? If I have the faith and strong intention to do something nothing can stop me except me. Even if they told me you are really bad, I won’t stop until I try and try hard. The point I am trying to make here that you don’t have to be influenced by the opinion of some people who you know too well to trust. Even if that people is fully trusted, you may give it another thought before deciding what to do.

Moreover, don’t depend on other people to gain success. You can do it on your own! What’s the point on begging people to help you in your own success? It’s human nature that everyone wants to be the best, that’s a fact. So remember that only few people will help you if they actually did and they might even do it because if you did it they will benefit from it. Unfortunately, as the world rule, everything has a price. Non is better than you we are all created to be unique and be proud of it.

One more thing to keep in mind! Depending on your lazy-self is also not the best choice. Lean on the active you instead. That’s the power of achievement and success. Success doesn’t mean only career success as well. It’s anything we wish for and make the dream come true. A lot of people can’t make it, because of either giving up easily or working so hard for nothing either because they are not convinced that they are not actually good enough at them even after trying loads and loads of time. Waste of time, money and effort can also be from the factors of holding your going forward. So be careful of what you work on.

It’s just simple as that!
SUCCESS = HARD WORK + DEPENDING ON YOURSELF +  BELIEVING YOU CAN DO IT

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx