A moment of thinking…

Have you ever stopped for a moment and started thinking over and over about the events in your life and how your journey up to her has been a long way along? I did and I do all the time, mostly searching for answers to questions that I sometimes don’t know. Sounds weird, right? 😀

What I meant by questions I don’t know are those that I ask myself when I feel sad or happy for no reason. Those times when you know there is something which is really good or really bad but you don’t know. However, from the most important questions I always ask myself is  ” Do I regret anything I’ve done in my life so far?” I always search for the answer “No”.  I always search my life events and search for what might be better if changed, what might I’ve done to make things better. It doesn’t matter how hard I think of better options I know that the best thing to do is not to regret anything I’ve done. Because firstly, Regret won’t make me feel any better and secondly, I had nothing else to do at the time that might made the situation better, and without those actions I might never be here now writing this blog..

Having a moment of thinking does’t mean only questions. Sometimes, I just… think. I just replay my day before I sleep and think of the people and events I was surrounded by today. I don’t mean  by that to annoy myself or think of the negative things that happened today, I always either think of the good things or how not to make those negative things happened today happen again. I don’t mean by thinking before sleeping “Over thinking”. I actually don’t believe in over thinking and that your brain do them on it’s own. No, every thing happens in this word s a reflection of another action or decision, we don’t see them or relate them but they are. If you over think before you sleep then probably your body is tired or that something happened today that upset  you and that’s the reaction your brain does to express the pain. I do get them sometimes but I always try  to replace them with a happy memory or a beautiful song that I like.

That doesn’t mean that I am a happy person who lives in a pink bubbly world, because I am not 😀 I also get upset and sad a loooooot of times! But I just say so what! It’s not the end of the world, it will move on! However, that doesn’t mean to drop the subject. I mean we all got goals and believes that we fight for in this life and that’s what mostly brings us the pain of failing and sadness. Don’t give up fighting! Just don’t be sad or moron for too long because you might lose a lot more than you win.

What are your moments of thinking too? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Keep sharing the +ve vibes!

Being sad and negative about most of things in your life is really fine, but at the end of the day we should be satisfied with who we are and what we do. It’s either this or we won’t have a life!

Just wait for a sec. and think. Do you really like the way things are? If yes then you should be really thankful because not a lot have such a blessing. But if not, also be fine too because that’s another blessing! I know that might sound weird but I have strong believes that when you are in a hard situation, it’s not the time to be sad and angry on anyone including yourself. It’s a bitter sweet challenge, that if you handled it good and right, then you actually passed a hard test in your life that ones again if it happens, you will know very well that it can’t stop or annoy you!

Therefore, I try always to be positive about everything in my life. Even in the hardest, worst situations. Sometimes, my family and friends say that I don’t have feelings that even in the worst, saddest situations I still laugh, and make jokes. But that’s not because I am weird or empty as some of you might think as my family. It’s my way to make me and everyone one around just out of their sadness or anger so we can find a solution easily.  Well, yeah I actually keep my anger and sadness in myself and try to keep it away really hard enough that whenever I am alone I start all the negative thinking. So, I found that if I kept that energy inside me for sometime, it will be hard so I start thinking positive and get rid of that non needed energy by listening to music, playing it, drawing, coloring, sports. Just anything to help me get my mind clear and focused on the positives and solutions.

More importantly is to not only shower yourself with all the +ve energy but also shower other people with it too! Believe me, if you want a relaxing, positive working area or a peaceful family reunion is really hard because we are all humans and we all have our pains and sorrows. So the only way to make everything positive is creating a huge field of happiness and energy that keeps everyone instead of cursing the day they got employed at, they just enjoy what they are doing at least :D. Try to make out of that boring same conversations meeting to a energetic, enthusiastic place of chit chatting and laughs 😀

Just keep sharing the positive energy not only with you soul but also with everybody around you! Remember! Sharing is caring 😉 😀

What do you do to get rid of the negative energy you have? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Everything comes on time

Most of us get stressed over late relationships, success, marriages and so on easily. As much as I think that stressing is such a healthy thing to do and have but why?

I’ve been always concerned about everything in my life, Like my grades, my next relationship or friendship and lately my career. It’s actually pretty normal to get stressed over things and especially late things. But let’s think of it more closely. Does your concern and stress speed up or fix things? Well, I don’t think so. Therefore, I think it’s better to think of those things or ways to fix them better!

I believe that patience and calmness are gifts, but more important that some people have them but they don’t know their existence! I’ve spent my whole life just until this year stressing and having no patience. This year I decided that I will not worry or stress myself at any cost, because when I stress things go wrong. Therefore, I started to train myself on patience and calmness even in hard situations so I can handle them as much as I can and  don’t lose control. I know that might seem hard and sometimes impossible in some severe situations when being calm is that last thing you can do, but just try. I mean whatever happens is our fate whether we accept it or not it’s going to happen, all we can do is trying our best to make things better in the most possible way. ” Wishing for the best expecting the worse.. 😀

So be patient as much as you can! Whatever you want to happen will happen. You are going to get promoted, or married or whatever you want. It’s all a matter of time. I picture life as a train station where every stop is a new station in our lives. And what we do on trains while travelling? We get to know new people, read more, work and sometimes we might think better of what to do in the next stop.

What I mean is that instead of sitting and waiting, think and plan! So when whatever you wait for is there, you don’t have to waste time and get to enjoy it till the max.! Keep your patience full! 😀

What are you waiting for? Are you patient or can’t wait ?! 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx