Love?

Well, that might be the first time to right about love, maybe even the first time to think of it as a real thing that exist in life. Just to be clear, it’s not because I am falling in love :D, let’s say just that it’s something that because of the fantasies that I read and watched about I nearly believed that it doesn’t actually exists. I jut want to post it because I feel that it might guide someone, who knows :D. After all it’s all my point of view that yours might be completely different, which is completely awesome 😉 :D.

I’ve always thought of Love as weakness or a big lie and I still think the same actually but in a different way as I grew up. Love is weakness towards the person you love, it’s that you might have to give up everything for the person that stole your love out of you. That person stole your heart yes, but somehow, it seems so right that it’s hardly a theft. Love can be the biggest lie we might live if it’s only for entertainment, if we judged it before it even starts or made it ourselves. It can be a lie if it was more than love, if it was fantasy. Love has no questions or thoughts. Although I jus said that love is weakness but that weakness make you weak for your beloved ones but stronger than a hurricane and destructive, worse than a storm if it had anything wrong to do with your other half. That strength is weird enough, for me, I’ve never knew how powerful it is, but I am sure it’s stronger than the strongest thing on earth. The reason of it for me too is still unknown, maybe because you feel full that you have your other half. 

Real love is something different and weirdly nice, you will feel that one time  or twice if you are that lucky! Love is supposed to be the relaxation and simplicity, it’s supposed to show the best of you, the glory that is buried deeply in you. True that it sometimes deserves the fight, but it’s supposed to be flowing like water. It’s when you don’t have to hold a gun to keep it there or make plans to keep the person you love beside you.

From my point of view, the worst thing ever is the conspiracy that someone should be with us just because we love them, although they don’t feel the same, or be with someone who loves us but we don’t. The idea of love is that both sides, trust, respect and be passionate for each other. If it’s anything other than that, then good luck next time because that’s not love and you are just making things worse for you and the others. 

True love stories for me is nothing like what’s in novels or movies, although it’s a nice dream though that I would be happy to happen :D, but the ones that when two old grandparents sit there and tell. That’s true love , because love is trust and loyalty that might not happen at the start most of the times but if they passed everything together to that age and still smile when they look or touch to each other then who needs more than that! Someone to trust and be happy with and keep each other safe.

Love is not just a word and it doesn’t happen in just a night and after all, it’s all destinies that we never can change. You might actually fall in love with the last person you can expect to even look at their face, meet at the last place you can expect or even that person can be so close that you might be that shocked when you guys actually fall in love 😉 😀

The most important thing I want to say here is that never even mix up liking someone with loving. Because liking might happen everyday, but love is the rarest and doesn’t even happen to everyone.

It’s weird that I am even posting this because believe me, I’ve never thought about that topic or maybe thought yes, but for other people or just to think of it nothing more. Just take care of yourself, where is your heart taking you, because it might take you to dark places that you might regret visiting later and maybe never getting out of it. That’s my main goal of this after all. 🙂

So! How did you fall in love 😉 :D?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

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Productivity knows no strategy

In the past year, I’ve been told that I study a lot or that I spend a lot of time studying and that I am a nerdy- which wasn’t so true by the way :D. Well, Studying too much was true especially that in my country most students have private lessons out of school to help them in studying and scoring high marks. So even if it wasn’t myself studying alone I would be having a lesson anyway. Therefore, people started asking me how do I do it? Like what type of strategy I follow to keep me studying without being sick of the book, although I actually hardly sit focusing for so much time on learning some kind of information.

SO! First of all! I didn’t have any strategies or time tables expect those ones to remind me of my exam timings, or my lessons.  The only thing I had was faith and goals. Goals of having my own successful, famous, global business or being one day one of the youngest entrepreneurs or  have an early PhD. Big hopes right 😉 :D? Anyway, I had the aim of high score and achievements. So simply, I followed my heart and used my mind. I did what I see best to me. I didn’t study complete full hours, I used to watch TV shows or listen to music when I just get sick of it all. I made my favorite food or asked my mum, actually :D. I knew my duties well and knew my date and deadlines very well. I tried my best to enjoy it like hanging out mainly every weekend with my friends or got to the gym to get rid of the negative energy and on the exam days I practiced my own sport at home. I did it all hoping to get the best marks but I didn’t put that as a must. I just did my best and went for it.

Most importantly, is that I LOVED what I did. I picked the subjects that I love and loved to major at, so whatever I did was pleasing me more than just studying for it. It meant more. Therefore, an advice from me to you, do what you love. Don’t get obligated to something, because if you don’t love it, you won’t give it what it needs from you. When you do the something you love, you will find yourself doing it and spending time in it just as easy and gentle as the water flows.

That was about my studies but that applies to everything, to your job, your relationships, everything. So if you are reading this and there is that thing you that someone forced you to do, well refuse it! Do what you think you are best for and that you enjoy. Remember that if the thing you are doing is joyful to you then you will never need strategies to keep it always to the top 😉

SO! What changes are you going to change now? What doesn’t need strategies to produce for you 😉 :D?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Mirror mirror on the wall..

Who didn’t ever wish to have a mirror on the wall that shows us everything happening and most important of all is that it shows the truth, just like the one at Snow White. Don’t get me wrong we actually kinda have one of those mirrors that are called TVs and Internet, although it might be full of rumors. Well whatever, that’s not what I want to talk about here now actually, maybe some other blog. 😀

We all agree that mirrors, the ones we have, shows truth, Like for example, if you look cute it will show you cute unlike the phones and filters. However, our eyes are the ones that look at mirror and judge what it sees, and that’s EXACTLY what that blog is about. Most of the time when we dress something like for example, worse yesterday, the first thing comes in my mind ” oh, but I wore that yesterday what will people think..” and then some of us might say ” nah.. who cares I just Love that t-shirt, i am going with it today too!”. Some others say ” I better change it and wear something else or people might think that I don’t do my laundry” or ” That I don’t have other than this T-shirt”. Well Both ways, still the first thing pops in our minds is the people’s opinion. Off course people’s opinion is important and maintaining our image but mostly we might be harming ourselves for caring about other people than us.

The pressure of always looking to what people think or say might keep our minds busier than it’s supposed to be and obviously pay more than we can afford 😀 The idea here is that You can keep that pressure but for your own judge, your own benefit and happiness. Like if you are going to buy a new dress or wear make up or go to the gym or buy a new car that is really luxurious. Then do! But first are you doing it for your own pleasant and satisfaction or is it for people’s eyes? Because believe me, people’s eyes always see that it doesn’t matter how much effort you put into it, they still believe that they are the best. It’s human nature! The whole idea here is that if you want to bear the pressure of staying fit is for your own health and pleasure so that when YOU look in the mirror, YOU judge yourself not the people. You can accept people’s polite judgment, you know those ones that might help you keep things better but believe me, NO ONE EVER has the right to make a joke of you. We are all human beings and we all good and better than each others in different ways the are many to count.

So! The next time you look at the mirror all you are going to think of is ” Does that look good to me? Does the change or the maintain worth it to keep me happy and satisfied in my own way of life 😉 😀 ”

If you are looking at the mirror now what will you say? 😉 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Can it be real ..?

When we hear about someone who is so happy and satisfied in their life or so successful or got lucky, people say that it’s his or her luck and that if it happened it mostly happen on TV shows , movies and in the dreams.

It’s true that most of what we see on the screens is not true and much more prefect than reality, but have you ever thought about that idea that if someone thought about it then it actually exists in the real life? We are all human beings at the end and it doesn’t matter how genius and smart someone is our celling of thought always has a limit that we all have and can reach and no one can reach more than it. Therefore, Whatever we see and open our mouths in surprise and astonishment, I think we also can reach that much of greatness.  I know that what I am thinking about is a little bit weird and a lot of overthinking but I actually have been watching a lot of TV shows this holiday and I couldn’t help but notice the details and watch normal people around me, compare the reality and what’s-so-called dream world and compare them and I found out that both world are the same, just a little more purified.

I’ve tried to actually try this dreamy world in real life to prove that to myself that everything is possible. I tried even the simple things like my lifestyle such as trying to have healthy food and simple one too like I didn’t get the expensive type of food to keep myself healthy I tried with the simple stuff I had and it actually kind of worked. I have been sporting and take care of myself. I tried to change my life plans like instead of just sitting around caring about nothing to actually get engaged in the conversations around me and training in the career I am planning to have. I started leaning new languages and planned for my senior year that I would be doing more than just studying for my diploma, like having driving lessons, or writing more something that doesn’t only depends on my grades, after all school is go to be done but my life won’t and I still have a lot to learn other than my lessons and ALs.

After all, it seemed to me that what we see on the screens can actually happen in real life if we want, it depends on how we want it. We don’t have to be statues to be perfect, remember that whatever we see on the screen or dream of is all created by a human being, just like you. They create the story and scenario to make an imaginary story for us to enjoy or learn from. You too! Create your own story and your own heroes. It’s your own life babe! Live it as much as you can and make from your own life a story that is the nearest to perfection, because the truth is nothing is called perfection.

How do you see what is on the screen now? Still impossible to happen in real life yet? 😉 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

PS:Life is too short

Live everyday like you it’s the last day of your life, and live your life as if you live forever

We all have our own fights, some of them are the ones that help us build our lives and give us a goal to live for. Others that only waste our life time, such as our fights with our families and friends. Some fights yes worth it, but they are few ones that rarely happens. Life isn’t that long to spend it in ignoring phone calls of your beloved ones or staying home sitting on the couch and cancel hanging out.

Listen! From now on, you are not cancelling any going outs to stay at home, or cancelling phone calls because you just don’t want to answer it. Fell free to go out do what you’ve always wished for as long as you can! Be who you’ve always wanted to be.

Remember: When you are backed against the wall, break the goddamn thing down

– Suits TV Show

Most importantly is to not depend on someone for your happiness or to do you something for you. Since my holiday started, I’ve been asking people and my father to ask for me about a center to learn Italian at it, but off course everyone is busy, therefore, I started to learning on my own and Io studio l’italiano di per una settimana adesso (I study Italian for a week now) :D. Do what is best for you no matter what 😉 😀

Life is short to be sad or angry for more than usual it deserves. Look around and see how life can be so nice and shady and the same time. Also remember that life is mainly gray, black or white are the colors of the extreme that at special occasions can show up.

Honestly, That blog should be short because it’s not me who is going to tell you how to make yourself happy and lively. It’s you who should think how can you make your life easier and better 😉 😀

Any ideas? 😉 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx