Non-medical painkillers

I guess that from the title you thought that you will find some kind of groovy recipe with natural seeds and plants that ends up understanding nothing from what you read and end up calling your mum for a solution or doctor.

Well, don’t worry it’s such an easy understandable ways that you might be using everyday or right now! The type of painkillers I am talking about is the modern easy ways of leaving all of our lives behind our backs for seconds. Having a break from all the tension we pass by.

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The new definition of “Living your life”

In the past, they used to say that living your life is just about fun, being surrounded by people you love, and relax. Knowing that what is coming can be handled.

People at that time used to be easy and simple. They used to laugh easily and a lot. Unfortunately, those people are in the age of 80+ and maybe gone.. leaving the new society with some conecpts they were taught that can’t cope with these days.

In the last couple of years, I realized that enjoying my life can be without people who love me, I mean who does? Everyone these days is busy for making himself/herself the best. So how can you find someone someone who cares and loves you knowing that they actually might betray you. So! I decided that I would enjoy my life with or without people caring for me, which makes my life easier for not caring who left my life or got into it. Life is like a train and a train doesn’t carry the same people all way. 

Secondly, I decided to do what I want even if people find it silly or annoying as long as it’s not wrong. I mean sometime you do annoy me and I don’t speak. Oh! And about that too! I decided that the best way of living a true with no worries life is telling the truth.

Truth makes you relaxed that you are not hiding anything. You are not hiding your feelings or worry all the time about the next action.

So! To sum this up, the 3 secrets of living your life now is truth, enjoying (even silly things), and let people go without much of regret.

I hope that makes it easy for you to open up about what makes you feel bad for and start living your life the best you can. 

What do you think ?? Do you have any more ways for enjoying life ? Do you do any of these and really made the change ?? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Fake Human Relations war

We all try to keep everyone satisfied. We try to keep everyone by our side. Unfortunately, that’s impossible.

For me it looks like a war. Sometimes I sit by myself thinking, why can’t everything be easy?? Why can’t we just be true and happy?? 

Human nature is greedy. We technically want everything for the minimum loss. That can’t happen because we can’t have everything. Same with people. We want everyone to be our friend. We want that perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. We want those awesome parents. We want those ideal people we see in movies and tv shows. But basically, they don’t exist. We expect much that makes us hardly accept the truth.

And when I said in the title ” Fake Human Relations War” I meant it. Because if the relation is true there won’t be a war. I mean by war when you do everything to make this relationship works or to stay friends. If that relation is true you won’t have to do anything to survive it. 

Those relationships and friendships are costly too. I don’t mean costly as “money” I mean in “emotions” “pressure”. They keep us doing the maths all the time and thinking about our next action or word hundreds of times before actually doing them. That makes so much pressure on our feelings, emotions and sometimes they can cost us our jobs, other people who truly love us, and more awesome physical things..

Honestly, don’t run after someone you want. The person who loves you so much and wants you will try everything to reach you, he will help you when u need it without asking the help. He will forgive you most of the time. Moreover, you will have a free relationship or friendship with no hate or calculations of your actions and it will be fun! 

Don’t search for perfection. Search for peace, love and more importantly happiness 🙂

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna xx

Be calm no matter what 

Calm is a word of peace and happiniess. Who doesn’t want to live calm ?? I think non !

With all the stress we are exposed to everyday, the stress of living is getting more and more everyday and if you didn’t stay calm it will affect your own life that you are stressed about. The question here is How ??

It’s hard to stay calm around such a missy situation but believe me what makes it worse is stressing. So try always to focus of the solution of any problem stop regretting and blaming. When you have the urge to cry for example, cry ! Yes cry. Don’t say that no I am strong and so on. You are strong that’s true but you are a human with a limit and feelings also remember that. 

Try to have a holiday from everything once in a while (even from your phone). So you can empty yourself from all the bad things and stress you passed through so far and continue in your full power. 

Don’t stress yourself for someone. Remember that it’s your life that your living not people’s. It also happens one time so enjoy it to max. However, live as if you live forever and work as if you die tomorrow.

Keep only positive vibes around you. That’s the key. Don’t let anything or anyone take you down. 

Finally, enjoy sticking to the people who care for you and love you and you have the same feelings for them. Keep only the happy things surround you. And make your choices wisely and what makes you satisfied.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Search for fun

Vacation is about to be over and school is around the corner. So I decided to seek for some fun even if it’s just simple thing or people call it silly.


I am going to year 11 and I still play those  video games like delicious Emily and dinner dash 😀 sounds silly I know but believe me this is from the stuff that makes me Happy.

I also read some sweet books before sleeping. It doesn’t have to be informative books or reading it for gaining information or sad story. Offcourse it’s a good thing but sometimes it makes you not interested in completing it. So I started reading sweet books that have some good words to learn and takes me to another world, giving me the chance to forget all that I passed by the whole day.

Most important is music ! Yup ! Music is my soul medication actually – that’s how I call it- sometimes I create a world that I wish I could live in real life and make stories in my imagination but I enjoy it as it maybe seem wierd I know 😀

Don’t give up a source that gives you happiness. Don’t care for who call it silly or wasting time. As long as it makes you happy then it’s not a waste of time, it’s not silly and worth doing it even once in a while 🙂

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Don’t be upset and look forward

All of us went through some hard times and problems. I am sure those problems differ due to lifestyle and way of living. And maybe that huge problem you have when you talk about it with your friend or colleague seems to silly to that person maybe because he lives a harder life or older etc.

That past few years I had so many problems. We all have problems in each age. For example, when we were young it was that we hated school for a teacher or a reason that we were scared to go and our problem was going to school. When we grew a little bit it was a matter of games or hanging out. Reaching the teenage, come the relationships problems , partying and so on. Then reaches the adulthood and out problems comes to be getting married, finding a job or having loads of money. 

Maybe others have problems of just surviving life. As I say problems comes in all shapes and sizes.

I need you also to know that finding that friend who can lean on is hard so don’t trust any one tells you that he is your friend. Don’t let also romantic relationships spoils your fun life or your future.

Speaking of future, have you ever asked yourself if what you are doing now will affect you in future? Will building a hate relationship with someone can cause bad influence on your future life or quitting this job or way of life can cause me troubles?

There are 3 laws in taking decisions that you should know. Don’t make a great decision while you are angry. Ask yourself twice before taking an action that may change the whole thing. Don’t rush ! 

Also know that what matters at the end is you! Because if anything bad happened to you it may affect the people who you care for them. It might also affect you! What I mean with you is yourself, a one life decision can make you happy and all the people around you happy as well as God ! And other can ruin everything! So be careful.

Always look to the future not only what happened or still happening..

I hope that one was helpful 🙂

Take care everyone 🙂

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Truth can hurts..

We all live that life without knowing what’s coming next..


Sometimes, I ask myself what if this whole thing is just a dream. What I am don’t exist in real life and that’s just a game or a tv show. I know it sounds crazy but I really have that feeling every time I think about my existence.. 

We live a big lie since we get to be born. We wish we could grow faster to be like mummy and daddy. As a kid we dream to grow up for example to get a lot of money to buy the games we like, we thought that’s the real dream and it’s that easy. Then growing as student in primary school , we dream of growing up so we can not do anymore homework or tests. Then growing up being teenagers, dreaming of that life of money, work, driving cars. We get to be so ambitious about that actually. Then we hit the adulthood to find something completely untrue and wired. 

We come to ask ourselves” was that really what I’ve been dreaming of??” ” is that the life of happily ever after I thought of having it??”

Life is hard but to get through it you should be harder, tougher, going through it like the fire gets through the metal to melt it, shaping it.

I spend so many nights thinking of that big lie I had back when I was young and start laughing till I cry. I have those words in my mind, saying not to give up. I wish one day I would listen to them or at least , believe them..

However, what I learnt so far that never make my pillow full of my tears at night. Never show my weakness. It’s hard to do I know because we all want someone to feel we are broken and hurt to help us. But unfortunately, I am working on it. I couldn’t find that person yet to show my tears or hurt. I hope to find that person soon. But still a wish or a hope, till I reach it I will pass through many things, many heartbreaking moments and refreshing happily moments. Even if I found that person. He is still a human who can’t just stop my life at. 

I know that truth hurts, especially when it shows a good thing’s badness.. 

Keep going because nothing deserves, because there is an end to the road we walking. What matters is how we end it and if the way we ended it will keep our names clean, giving people a good memory of ourselves..

It’s the never-give-up theory that you should keep it in your mind!

You have a lot to do and show this world. And you can do it on your own! Don’t stop your life to a person or anything! Life is going on so is you!

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Say hello to holidays !!


Finally, my school days are over by today. It’s time to celebrate ! Right ?? But, what happens after celebration?? Like shouldn’t I find something useful to do for the rest of my free days ??

Well, that’s what I was thinking about like a week ago when I realized that school work is over. Time for another type of work. That work which gives you more experience that books in my school library does. 😀

I thought of different stuff that might be helpful and thoughtful for you and me as well, I mean let’s consider this as a thinking out loud together for 

The list of options and ideas for this summer:

As we mentioned summer then we should mention sea, beach and pool and that’s my type of celebration I think after chilling at home for like 2 or 3 days or maybe more 😀

Then comes to reading some books that might be useful and exciting. What about some series and movies so by the end of this holiday you would have seen a huge number of shows so when you talk with someone about TV or stuff , you will be 99% understanding what’s going on 😀

I mean for me it’s a problem because due to projects and high school I got no time for series and so on that when my buddies talks about any of those I feel ” man, why do I feel I am from Mars or something 😀 ” 

What about making some money? I thought about making jewelry and selling them online or for the neighbourhood , or a shift at Starbucks or fixing stuff such as PCs , cars or bikes even! Also it can be an online legal business 😉 😀

What about sports and working our bodies, I recommend that as a priority actually 😀

Above all of that try to know more good people. Try to Socialize more. If you are shy or not socializing go on ! There’s nothing to fear about and remember I am always here if you need any help 😉 😀

At the end of the day, I wish to all of you a happy summer and I will update what I am going to be up to as always 😀

Good luck and stay blessed.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

You are unique !

Do you have a DNA or a fingerprint ? 

Then to begin with , you have something that non else have. Others don’t have your fingerprint or DNA , right ? 😀 

Let’s talk about hobbies. God gave everyone one of us a gift that non else have. That gift doesn’t have to be a nice voice to sing or drawing. No no no , it’s all about your skills.

Yup! Your skills! Like how much you can convince someone of something, or how many things can you handle them together without any faults and so on. All of those are hobbies and special skills that not everyone has. 

All you have to do is just search for it. Or help your children to figure it out and to improve it 😀

That way it can help you to pick the most convenient job and to be creative in it 😀

Good luck 😉

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Be your own cheerleader ! 

Many of us gets disappointed of doing something and then finding a lot saying it’s wired or bad.

Well, ask me about it !

Unfortunately , that’s me in my everyday life. Even now about this blog, I write and I know that 90% I am going to be disappointed and 10% may get some good words or noticed and I am still writing !

Look ! There are 2 types of those people ! 

Type #1 :

Are the people who wants to get you down , maybe because they are jealous or for their benefit so they can shine. Those people normally will find them in the same field as you or people who hate seeing your success and ofcourse we face those people everyday and we know them pretty well. So don’t let them make you down! Keep the good work up ! 😀

Here is a thumbs-up from me (y) 😉 😀

Type #2:

Those are the people who are our families, best friends and all the people who love up and care for us. Well, those people still can be sometime negative, but most of the time know that they can be true and listen to their advice, think about it and if you find they are really true about it which 99% of all time them take their advice 🙂 

My advice for you also to not trust Internet 100% all the time. Because you know, some people just like mocking and annoying people, some want to get famous or make money even if they give wrong information. So whatever you look through on the Internet , make sure of it before making it an opinion or answer that matters to your decisions.

We all make mistakes. That’s true, but what makes of it a mistake actually ? Nothing does, until it hurts someone or make you in trouble or makes you about to be in trouble. That’s why you should be careful with all of your decisions, especially those decision of moving to another house with someone or alone, quitting your job, etc. . Not just because you hate or annoys you ! Or because there are people who wants to keep you down all the time ! Nothing good comes easy remember 😉 

At the end of the day, be your own cheerleader, as long as you are 100% true, legal and confident of what you are doing! 😀 

Don’t let some people who hates you disappoint you ! Remember we are not perfect ! Even profits had enemies and people to ruin their life ! C’est la vie ! 😀 

Always welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

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