Love?

Well, that might be the first time to right about love, maybe even the first time to think of it as a real thing that exist in life. Just to be clear, it’s not because I am falling in love :D, let’s say just that it’s something that because of the fantasies that I read and watched about I nearly believed that it doesn’t actually exists. I jut want to post it because I feel that it might guide someone, who knows :D. After all it’s all my point of view that yours might be completely different, which is completely awesome πŸ˜‰ :D.

I’ve always thought of Love as weakness or a big lie and I still think the same actually but in a different way as I grew up. Love is weakness towards the person you love, it’s that you might have to give up everything for the person that stole your love out of you. That person stole your heart yes, but somehow, it seems so right that it’s hardly a theft. Love can be the biggest lie we might live if it’s only for entertainment, if we judged it before it even starts or made it ourselves. It can be a lie if it was more than love, if it was fantasy. Love has no questions or thoughts. Although I jus said that love is weakness but that weakness make you weak for your beloved ones but stronger than a hurricane and destructive, worse than a storm if it had anything wrong to do with your other half. That strength is weird enough, for me, I’ve never knew how powerful it is, but I am sure it’s stronger than the strongest thing on earth. The reason of it for me too is still unknown, maybe because you feel full that you have your other half.Β 

Real love is something different and weirdly nice, you will feel that one timeΒ  or twice if you are that lucky! Love is supposed to be the relaxation and simplicity, it’s supposed to show the best of you, the glory that is buried deeply in you. True that it sometimes deserves the fight, but it’s supposed to be flowing like water. It’s when you don’t have to hold a gun to keep it there or make plans to keep the person you love beside you.

From my point of view, the worst thing ever is the conspiracy that someone should be with us just because we love them, although they don’t feel the same, or be with someone who loves us but we don’t. The idea of love is that both sides, trust, respect and be passionate for each other. If it’s anything other than that, then good luck next time because that’s not love and you are just making things worse for you and the others.Β 

True love stories for me is nothing like what’s in novels or movies, although it’s a nice dream though that I would be happy to happen :D, but the ones that when two old grandparents sit there and tell. That’s true love , because love is trust and loyalty that might not happen at the start most of the times but if they passed everything together to that age and still smile when they look or touch to each other then who needs more than that! Someone to trust and be happy with and keep each other safe.

Love is not just a word and it doesn’t happen in just a night and after all, it’s all destinies that we never can change. You might actually fall in love with the last person you can expect to even look at their face, meet at the last place you can expect or even that person can be so close that you might be that shocked when you guys actually fall in love πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

The most important thing I want to say here is that never even mix up liking someone with loving. Because liking might happen everyday, but love is the rarest and doesn’t even happen to everyone.

It’s weird that I am even posting this because believe me, I’ve never thought about that topic or maybe thought yes, but for other people or just to think of it nothing more. Just take care of yourself, where is your heart taking you, because it might take you to dark places that you might regret visiting later and maybe never getting out of it. That’s my main goal of this after all. πŸ™‚

So! How did you fall in love πŸ˜‰ :D?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

One love is all it needs

Firstly, I’d like to send my prayers to all the victims in every part in the world and always know that it’s never the end. It’s never the finale or the last attack. Be strong the worse is yet to come.

I’ve always learned in my life to wish for the best and expect the worse. That doesn’t mean that after every bad thing happened I just say that this is what I expected and have nothing else to do. I actually think of a way to turn from the disaster and celebration and a moment of pride and legendary. As an example of that the One Love Manchester Concert. Although it was a compensation for the concert that had the attack, I think that was a good move and a very kind one, it made a lot happy not only the people who attended the concert but also the victims who felt the love and care of the people for donating and caring for them and helping them ❀

One of the quotes that I believe at is that in every bad there is good. We don’t know what the future holds and honestly, if we knew we would have chosen not to know and let it be. What I want to say is that whatever happened either good or bad is what drove you to that point and if you thought about it a little more, you would find out that you actually had nothing to do except this and that whatever you did was your best option at the time. Even if what happened was bad, just have patience and you will find out the good of it later. Life is like the Yang Yong, where there is black, there is white. Remember that and keep it in your mind. Sometimes in my darkest times, when I think of that thought I feel way better and it renews the hope in me and keeps me fighting.

Hate can’t go away, it’s a main factor in life that without it there is no life. That doesn’t mean that it can’t be reduced or controlled, all it needs just it’s Yong, love. Life drove us apart and made us busy in our own paths and lives. However, we still meet and become one strong hand, united with love. Love doesn’t have to be shown just when a misery happens, it should be shown in every day life, with your family, friends, co-workers, people in the street. Love was never just a word, it’s an act that needs to be taken.. πŸ™‚

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Fake Human Relations war

We all try to keep everyone satisfied. We try to keep everyone by our side. Unfortunately, that’s impossible.

For me it looks like a war. Sometimes I sit by myself thinking, why can’t everything be easy?? Why can’t we just be true and happy?? 

Human nature is greedy. We technically want everything for the minimum loss. That can’t happen because we can’t have everything. Same with people. We want everyone to be our friend. We want that perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. We want those awesome parents. We want those ideal people we see in movies and tv shows. But basically, they don’t exist. We expect much that makes us hardly accept the truth.

And when I said in the title ” Fake Human Relations War” I meant it. Because if the relation is true there won’t be a war. I mean by war when you do everything to make this relationship works or to stay friends. If that relation is true you won’t have to do anything to survive it. 

Those relationships and friendships are costly too. I don’t mean costly as “money” I mean in “emotions” “pressure”. They keep us doing the maths all the time and thinking about our next action or word hundreds of times before actually doing them. That makes so much pressure on our feelings, emotions and sometimes they can cost us our jobs, other people who truly love us, and more awesome physical things..

Honestly, don’t run after someone you want. The person who loves you so much and wants you will try everything to reach you, he will help you when u need it without asking the help. He will forgive you most of the time. Moreover, you will have a free relationship or friendship with no hate or calculations of your actions and it will be fun! 

Don’t search for perfection. Search for peace, love and more importantly happiness πŸ™‚

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna xx

Be calm no matter whatΒ 

Calm is a word of peace and happiniess. Who doesn’t want to live calm ?? I think non !

With all the stress we are exposed to everyday, the stress of living is getting more and more everyday and if you didn’t stay calm it will affect your own life that you are stressed about. The question here is How ??

It’s hard to stay calm around such a missy situation but believe me what makes it worse is stressing. So try always to focus of the solution of any problem stop regretting and blaming. When you have the urge to cry for example, cry ! Yes cry. Don’t say that no I am strong and so on. You are strong that’s true but you are a human with a limit and feelings also remember that. 

Try to have a holiday from everything once in a while (even from your phone). So you can empty yourself from all the bad things and stress you passed through so far and continue in your full power. 

Don’t stress yourself for someone. Remember that it’s your life that your living not people’s. It also happens one time so enjoy it to max. However, live as if you live forever and work as if you die tomorrow.

Keep only positive vibes around you. That’s the key. Don’t let anything or anyone take you down. 

Finally, enjoy sticking to the people who care for you and love you and you have the same feelings for them. Keep only the happy things surround you. And make your choices wisely and what makes you satisfied.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Search for fun

Vacation is about to be over and school is around the corner. So I decided to seek for some fun even if it’s just simple thing or people call it silly.


I am going to year 11 and I still play those  video games like delicious Emily and dinner dash πŸ˜€ sounds silly I know but believe me this is from the stuff that makes me Happy.

I also read some sweet books before sleeping. It doesn’t have to be informative books or reading it for gaining information or sad story. Offcourse it’s a good thing but sometimes it makes you not interested in completing it. So I started reading sweet books that have some good words to learn and takes me to another world, giving me the chance to forget all that I passed by the whole day.

Most important is music ! Yup ! Music is my soul medication actually – that’s how I call it- sometimes I create a world that I wish I could live in real life and make stories in my imagination but I enjoy it as it maybe seem wierd I know πŸ˜€

Don’t give up a source that gives you happiness. Don’t care for who call it silly or wasting time. As long as it makes you happy then it’s not a waste of time, it’s not silly and worth doing it even once in a while πŸ™‚

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Say hello to holidays !!


Finally, my school days are over by today. It’s time to celebrate ! Right ?? But, what happens after celebration?? Like shouldn’t I find something useful to do for the rest of my free days ??

Well, that’s what I was thinking about like a week ago when I realized that school work is over. Time for another type of work. That work which gives you more experience that books in my school library does. πŸ˜€

I thought of different stuff that might be helpful and thoughtful for you and me as well, I mean let’s consider this as a thinking out loud together for 

The list of options and ideas for this summer:

As we mentioned summer then we should mention sea, beach and pool and that’s my type of celebration I think after chilling at home for like 2 or 3 days or maybe more πŸ˜€

Then comes to reading some books that might be useful and exciting. What about some series and movies so by the end of this holiday you would have seen a huge number of shows so when you talk with someone about TV or stuff , you will be 99% understanding what’s going on πŸ˜€

I mean for me it’s a problem because due to projects and high school I got no time for series and so on that when my buddies talks about any of those I feel ” man, why do I feel I am from Mars or something πŸ˜€ ” 

What about making some money? I thought about making jewelry and selling them online or for the neighbourhood , or a shift at Starbucks or fixing stuff such as PCs , cars or bikes even! Also it can be an online legal business πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

What about sports and working our bodies, I recommend that as a priority actually πŸ˜€

Above all of that try to know more good people. Try to Socialize more. If you are shy or not socializing go on ! There’s nothing to fear about and remember I am always here if you need any help πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

At the end of the day, I wish to all of you a happy summer and I will update what I am going to be up to as always πŸ˜€

Good luck and stay blessed.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Confidence blog

Hey there ! πŸ™‚

Whoever you are, a woman, a man, a kid, a teenager .. 

I want to tell you that you are awesome.

Well maybe I don’t know you .. But that doesn’t mean that we are not friends πŸ™‚ 

Don’t take people’s words guaranteed , they don’t know the real you ! Non does except you !

And remember some roses looks beautiful but they are toxic. So your face don’t have to be beautiful , but your soul. Keep in your mind also that non is perfect so always know that you might have something others don’t have πŸ˜‰ 

You are beautiful ! Don’t let someone annoy you or control your life ! You are stronger and more precious than that !

At the end, I want you to be 100% sure that you are rare and awesome. Spread the message to everyone ! Let’s all appreciate the beautiful souls we have more than bank accounts and followers number πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Celebs crush .. Umm do you think it counts ??

With all the respect to every celebrity, I am sure they are all having such a great message to give and have fans to support. However, some fans ( including me πŸ˜€ ) have some feelings that are more than just appreciation , maybe crush or love.

Last night, I found myself having crush on literately all celebs πŸ˜€ ( at least most of them) old and new ones ! Which drove me crazy. That me think of that isn’t a good thing. Celebs are humans like us. Whatever we did, unless crazy actions πŸ˜€ , we won’t be that noticed ! So whatever feelings I have more than appreciation and support won’t matter. 

I am a fan girl of many artists nowadays and old ones. I am a fan of MJJ, 5sos, little mix, Charlie Puth, and many more. I appreciate them all and love them so much. But my love doesn’t me following them everywhere, get upset if they fell in love or had new BFFs πŸ˜€

Come on ! They are just there away from our reach. All we can do is support and cheer. Letting them live a normal life πŸ˜€

I am proud of myself that I was that kind of girls who faint if they heard their celebs live or saw them πŸ˜€ I am just a normal person who claps and dance with the music. I’ve never even asked them for a selfie, but that’s because I never met them in real life with a chance to ask them for it πŸ˜€ . Even if I did I will try my best to as a sweet memory and good luck if I couldn’t won’t commit suicide πŸ˜€

So for all of the crazy lovers and sweet fans of every fandom over there! Try always to be who you are. Don’t make your wardrobe full of your favorite celebs shirts and clothes πŸ˜€ always keep your own normal clothes. Don’t get upset if your celeb dated another person πŸ˜€

Live your life, enjoying it as a normal super fan πŸ™‚ and let faith give you the chance to meet your fav celeb πŸ˜€ 

So you and your favorite celeb can live peacefully πŸ˜€ πŸ™‚

P.S: I am not against any concept, I am always giving my point of view that may help πŸ™‚ 

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Giving up ? You need to take another look actually.

Past days were headache. I had Mock Exams. Unfortunately,I didn’t get much of the grades I expected. I was upset and giving up but later I realized it’s a future that giving it up means ending it so soon. I also found myself angry for some silly reasons. I didn’t know why I would be, it’s just life!

  
Wondering around my room one day I found my old guitar full of dust and looks upset also. I totally forgot it. I really missed him. I played in this special one a lot of special songs, I had a dream one day of coming a guitarist or singer or whatever. That was Before I realize it’s just life that decided our fates, that the whole game isn’t 100% by our hands. 

Anyway I was upset to see it that way also. I picked it, cleaned it and played some notes. I felt I totally don’t know how to play it after I was everyday playing each and single song I loved. I was feeling really bad for losing a skill that if I could just be stronger not giving up easily I would be keeping it for the better and maybe I could achieve my dream. 

That point I knew that giving up is not a way to make me relax. But it’s committing suicide and killing all the little things that used to make our day of just thinking about it.

However, I now learned the lesson. I started playing again. This time I learned the lesson. You should also know it. Never give up! Believe me, you will regret so much.

Keep the faith…

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Gosh ! It’s 14th of February 2016 !!Β 

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone !! πŸ˜€
  
If you are single don’t consider it a problem AT ALL ! I am too and decided to enjoy it to the most πŸ˜€

Here’s what I am doing when the night visit my home πŸ˜‰ 
1-Watch movies ( the proposal, bride war, 24 dresses, the princess diaries, confessions of a shopaholic, legally blonde, what if, the fault in our stars , Cinderella,tangled, etc. )
2-Read books ( the selection , pretty little liars , girl online , the fault in our stars) 
 3- order or make food and sweets πŸ˜€
4- listen music !  
5- wish happy Valentine’s Day to all my friends and family.
You don’t have to be knotted to someone to celebrate it ! Atleast you are knotted to yourself and your success. And that’s deserve celebration, isn’t ? πŸ˜€
And for couples, enjoy it to most, don’t hide your feelings anyone today. Confess your love, anger, upset and happiness to your love! 
Start the next love year with love or searching for it πŸ™‚
But be careful ! It should be TRUE LOVE ! πŸ˜‰ 
Always welcome to the corner,
Menna xx