Different stories

One of the things that I sometimes think of is what kind of people or stories is out there in the world. Believe me, I can stay for an hour or maybe more just going from conclusions to reasons and from one person’s story or life to another. It’s really weird but that’s how sometimes waiting for time to pass can look like 😀

Anyway, I won’t lie to you. The reason I am writing this blog is somehow might be silly :D. As this summer, especially lately, I started watching LOADS of TV shows, movie and stuff like that. You might even notice from previous blogs this summer. Look, I am not that type of person who would enjoy sitting around doing nothing and as sometimes I have no other choice other than that, being engaged in other stories doesn’t sound bad to me D. So I started to watch SO many TV shows. Well, I am not addicted yet, maybe a little obsessed with the stories I see.

I love thinking of how might a story go if a different route was taken. It might be freaky but somehow it helps me to think of the possibilities and choice I might have if I got into a similar situation or even to help me understand how might people act according to their different stories. Let me make this clearer. When I hear a story of a person or watch a TV show I learn what kind of situation he or she might be at and how they will act. That way it helps me that when for example I ask something from my colleague and they show some type of a tense reaction for no reason, then something not good must’ve happened. I start to put scenarios and I don’t push my request that I might even search for a way to help if I can. It’s weird and believe me, doing this sometimes, puts me in weird situations with people, because off course no one now do anything for free. Unfortunately, the world changed so much to let free favors take place.

Just my point is that, We all have different stories, different cast too. You might be supported by your families, friends while others don’t. Always think of the people around you as of different versions and expect anything. a year or two before I would have advised you to think of the good intentions first with everyone. well, today I won’t, Today, I would tell you watch your back. The good intentions might only exits with your family or people you think might care just not to lose them or fight over non trust and stuff like that, but always be careful. Watch. your. back!

Remember that your story is different from their’s.

What was the wierdst story you heard or saw and thought about for so long?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

We are messy like a 100 pieces of puzzle

Who am I? I ask myself this question every night. Every night I find a different answer for it. Some days I am the happiest under the moon, some other times I am the bluest. Sometimes I so ambitious and hopeful about the morning and some other days  I am so hopeless that I feel it’s the end of the world and I might never wake up tomorrow.

Everyday makes me discover new things about people, the world. We are so weird, do you know that? But astonishingly, beautifully weird and that’s what makes us unique and our world somehow the right place to live at. I learn new stuff about people’s type every second. I find out that whatever I’ve knows and learned so far is never enough. There’s a quote that say:

” Without the change in tastes, the goods would’ve been ruined”

Therefore, it’s our good luck that we are different! Although, I know what you might be thinking about now, which is that life might have been so easier if we were all have the same personalities or minds. Okay, you might be right but think of living in a world where all the people are you. It can be so easier, that’s true but not forever. Even ourselves change. Like are you the same person you were a year ago, not even 10 years? We change every day, although we stay the same person at the end. Like a good person might get worse but will always return to it’s good origin. If there’s a small amount of kindness and goodness in someone, it will always show up. Changing also have measures. Like you can change a little bit over night. A person can never naturally change from batman to the joker over night :D. My point is that a person can’t be so bad over night. They might be angrier than usual so they would make an unacceptable thing but at the end they are not that bad after all.

Also remember that people are different, but there that good person who might be good just like you. So never give up on finding you match of friends or your other half. Don’t also keep that thought of that what you are doing is silly or people might not like it. If you thing it’s worth it then there is someone else somewhere also thinks the same ;). As for myself, I think of that every time i send a message or do something or even writing a blog :D. But every time I feel that thing inside me that I am happy that I am writing this so I am sure someone else might be happy to read it to :D.

After all. we are all like pieces of puzzle that always take time to be solved. Just needs time 🙂 and that comes when you get to know that person better every day. Also don’t get so shocked and except anything, might happens of changes. We are all humans, and if you changed from yesterday to today then others can.

Life is full of surprises 😉 🙂

What was the hugest change that happened to you :D?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Mirror mirror on the wall..

Who didn’t ever wish to have a mirror on the wall that shows us everything happening and most important of all is that it shows the truth, just like the one at Snow White. Don’t get me wrong we actually kinda have one of those mirrors that are called TVs and Internet, although it might be full of rumors. Well whatever, that’s not what I want to talk about here now actually, maybe some other blog. 😀

We all agree that mirrors, the ones we have, shows truth, Like for example, if you look cute it will show you cute unlike the phones and filters. However, our eyes are the ones that look at mirror and judge what it sees, and that’s EXACTLY what that blog is about. Most of the time when we dress something like for example, worse yesterday, the first thing comes in my mind ” oh, but I wore that yesterday what will people think..” and then some of us might say ” nah.. who cares I just Love that t-shirt, i am going with it today too!”. Some others say ” I better change it and wear something else or people might think that I don’t do my laundry” or ” That I don’t have other than this T-shirt”. Well Both ways, still the first thing pops in our minds is the people’s opinion. Off course people’s opinion is important and maintaining our image but mostly we might be harming ourselves for caring about other people than us.

The pressure of always looking to what people think or say might keep our minds busier than it’s supposed to be and obviously pay more than we can afford 😀 The idea here is that You can keep that pressure but for your own judge, your own benefit and happiness. Like if you are going to buy a new dress or wear make up or go to the gym or buy a new car that is really luxurious. Then do! But first are you doing it for your own pleasant and satisfaction or is it for people’s eyes? Because believe me, people’s eyes always see that it doesn’t matter how much effort you put into it, they still believe that they are the best. It’s human nature! The whole idea here is that if you want to bear the pressure of staying fit is for your own health and pleasure so that when YOU look in the mirror, YOU judge yourself not the people. You can accept people’s polite judgment, you know those ones that might help you keep things better but believe me, NO ONE EVER has the right to make a joke of you. We are all human beings and we all good and better than each others in different ways the are many to count.

So! The next time you look at the mirror all you are going to think of is ” Does that look good to me? Does the change or the maintain worth it to keep me happy and satisfied in my own way of life 😉 😀 ”

If you are looking at the mirror now what will you say? 😉 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

PS:Life is too short

Live everyday like you it’s the last day of your life, and live your life as if you live forever

We all have our own fights, some of them are the ones that help us build our lives and give us a goal to live for. Others that only waste our life time, such as our fights with our families and friends. Some fights yes worth it, but they are few ones that rarely happens. Life isn’t that long to spend it in ignoring phone calls of your beloved ones or staying home sitting on the couch and cancel hanging out.

Listen! From now on, you are not cancelling any going outs to stay at home, or cancelling phone calls because you just don’t want to answer it. Fell free to go out do what you’ve always wished for as long as you can! Be who you’ve always wanted to be.

Remember: When you are backed against the wall, break the goddamn thing down

– Suits TV Show

Most importantly is to not depend on someone for your happiness or to do you something for you. Since my holiday started, I’ve been asking people and my father to ask for me about a center to learn Italian at it, but off course everyone is busy, therefore, I started to learning on my own and Io studio l’italiano di per una settimana adesso (I study Italian for a week now) :D. Do what is best for you no matter what 😉 😀

Life is short to be sad or angry for more than usual it deserves. Look around and see how life can be so nice and shady and the same time. Also remember that life is mainly gray, black or white are the colors of the extreme that at special occasions can show up.

Honestly, That blog should be short because it’s not me who is going to tell you how to make yourself happy and lively. It’s you who should think how can you make your life easier and better 😉 😀

Any ideas? 😉 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Don’t force it, you will find the right person anyway

We have to accept the fact that we are different human beings. We can’t change it or we can’t change each other by anyway possible.

Leaving our beloved ones that we once thought that’s the person we are going to spend our lives together no matter what. Losing a friend due to different personalities or point of views. As we are different, we live our lives different as well too and that’s not the problem yet. The real problem is when we force ourselves to be with the wrong person or when we try to fix them. Let’s get this straight, we can’t change people, events and the life course might be, but humans can’t change it’s other. It’s like fire against fire, both can’t put off each other, but different elements like water and fire can. Some people don’t even change at all, even if people change it might be late and their actions might not.

The idea I am trying to say that yes it might be hard to change but the earlier to figure out how to change to the better person we are it’s the better it can be. Don’t ever let someone label you or say you are something you are not, because unless you feel that thing and know for a fact that it’s true, it’s never true. People’s strongest weapon of hurting people is their tongue and the weakest spot to hit someone to bleeding is their faith in themselves. As soon as kit’s gone, it’s from the hardest thing to get back and start being confident again. You can go places and know it for a fact, just don’t let the person you are to stop you, you are different yes and be proud in anyway you are different, and if you think it’s not how you want yourself to be, easy! Try to be the best 😉

One more thing, don’t ever force a relationship, or a friendship. It won’t only be the hardest way to live it, if you ever got the chance too, it might cause damage more than healing and building up. Know for a fact that people are like different roses in a field, find you match and go with it. 🙂

Have you ever tried to fix a relationship or a friendship with someone and it was more or pain than support ??

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

We might be different but still the same

The people since so long ago were divided to classes. the division started by who owns the biggest part of land and have the most crops that can keep him and his family alive, this person mostly was the king. Later one at some part of the history it was divided by race and at some other time it was power. I know that most of you would say money but I think that money is just one thing the lead to another. I mean There are people who have great power but not the richest. Money can be a factor but not the main one.

Anyway, what I am trying to say here is that when you think of it we are humans, we walk the same land under the same sky. If we got lost, it’s the same stars that guide us to the right path. You want to know what makes you better than others? It’s not a name or a class you earned from your birth, it’s you work and love. It’s your ability to do the magic of fixing the bad things and benefit people more than hurting them. It’s your ability to build not to destroy, to make the world a better place.

We are always the same, god made us equal in a way! Think of it! If someone is pretty, they might not be smart. If someone is pretty and smart, they might not be happy. If someone is pretty, smart and happy, they might not be loved or have someone to lean on. The balance is always equal. It doesn’t matter your gender, race, bank account, or any of these stuff. These stuff is what the society put to regulate the life. But miracles can still happen after all 😉

Don’t give up and keep going on and don’t stop and say he or she is better than me. The moment you say that, is the moment you always regret in your whole life. We are all the same in a way, but we sometimes make us different. Hopefully, always different to the best. We are all born like the blank page and we fill the lines.

And most of all remember that as no one is better than you there is also no one lower than you. We are all humans who deserve a happy and peaceful life. We all deserve to love and be loved, we all deserve to be smiled at 🙂

Always welcome to the corner,

Menna Xx

A moment of thinking…

Have you ever stopped for a moment and started thinking over and over about the events in your life and how your journey up to her has been a long way along? I did and I do all the time, mostly searching for answers to questions that I sometimes don’t know. Sounds weird, right? 😀

What I meant by questions I don’t know are those that I ask myself when I feel sad or happy for no reason. Those times when you know there is something which is really good or really bad but you don’t know. However, from the most important questions I always ask myself is  ” Do I regret anything I’ve done in my life so far?” I always search for the answer “No”.  I always search my life events and search for what might be better if changed, what might I’ve done to make things better. It doesn’t matter how hard I think of better options I know that the best thing to do is not to regret anything I’ve done. Because firstly, Regret won’t make me feel any better and secondly, I had nothing else to do at the time that might made the situation better, and without those actions I might never be here now writing this blog..

Having a moment of thinking does’t mean only questions. Sometimes, I just… think. I just replay my day before I sleep and think of the people and events I was surrounded by today. I don’t mean  by that to annoy myself or think of the negative things that happened today, I always either think of the good things or how not to make those negative things happened today happen again. I don’t mean by thinking before sleeping “Over thinking”. I actually don’t believe in over thinking and that your brain do them on it’s own. No, every thing happens in this word s a reflection of another action or decision, we don’t see them or relate them but they are. If you over think before you sleep then probably your body is tired or that something happened today that upset  you and that’s the reaction your brain does to express the pain. I do get them sometimes but I always try  to replace them with a happy memory or a beautiful song that I like.

That doesn’t mean that I am a happy person who lives in a pink bubbly world, because I am not 😀 I also get upset and sad a loooooot of times! But I just say so what! It’s not the end of the world, it will move on! However, that doesn’t mean to drop the subject. I mean we all got goals and believes that we fight for in this life and that’s what mostly brings us the pain of failing and sadness. Don’t give up fighting! Just don’t be sad or moron for too long because you might lose a lot more than you win.

What are your moments of thinking too? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Keep sharing the +ve vibes!

Being sad and negative about most of things in your life is really fine, but at the end of the day we should be satisfied with who we are and what we do. It’s either this or we won’t have a life!

Just wait for a sec. and think. Do you really like the way things are? If yes then you should be really thankful because not a lot have such a blessing. But if not, also be fine too because that’s another blessing! I know that might sound weird but I have strong believes that when you are in a hard situation, it’s not the time to be sad and angry on anyone including yourself. It’s a bitter sweet challenge, that if you handled it good and right, then you actually passed a hard test in your life that ones again if it happens, you will know very well that it can’t stop or annoy you!

Therefore, I try always to be positive about everything in my life. Even in the hardest, worst situations. Sometimes, my family and friends say that I don’t have feelings that even in the worst, saddest situations I still laugh, and make jokes. But that’s not because I am weird or empty as some of you might think as my family. It’s my way to make me and everyone one around just out of their sadness or anger so we can find a solution easily.  Well, yeah I actually keep my anger and sadness in myself and try to keep it away really hard enough that whenever I am alone I start all the negative thinking. So, I found that if I kept that energy inside me for sometime, it will be hard so I start thinking positive and get rid of that non needed energy by listening to music, playing it, drawing, coloring, sports. Just anything to help me get my mind clear and focused on the positives and solutions.

More importantly is to not only shower yourself with all the +ve energy but also shower other people with it too! Believe me, if you want a relaxing, positive working area or a peaceful family reunion is really hard because we are all humans and we all have our pains and sorrows. So the only way to make everything positive is creating a huge field of happiness and energy that keeps everyone instead of cursing the day they got employed at, they just enjoy what they are doing at least :D. Try to make out of that boring same conversations meeting to a energetic, enthusiastic place of chit chatting and laughs 😀

Just keep sharing the positive energy not only with you soul but also with everybody around you! Remember! Sharing is caring 😉 😀

What do you do to get rid of the negative energy you have? 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Everything comes on time

Most of us get stressed over late relationships, success, marriages and so on easily. As much as I think that stressing is such a healthy thing to do and have but why?

I’ve been always concerned about everything in my life, Like my grades, my next relationship or friendship and lately my career. It’s actually pretty normal to get stressed over things and especially late things. But let’s think of it more closely. Does your concern and stress speed up or fix things? Well, I don’t think so. Therefore, I think it’s better to think of those things or ways to fix them better!

I believe that patience and calmness are gifts, but more important that some people have them but they don’t know their existence! I’ve spent my whole life just until this year stressing and having no patience. This year I decided that I will not worry or stress myself at any cost, because when I stress things go wrong. Therefore, I started to train myself on patience and calmness even in hard situations so I can handle them as much as I can and  don’t lose control. I know that might seem hard and sometimes impossible in some severe situations when being calm is that last thing you can do, but just try. I mean whatever happens is our fate whether we accept it or not it’s going to happen, all we can do is trying our best to make things better in the most possible way. ” Wishing for the best expecting the worse.. 😀

So be patient as much as you can! Whatever you want to happen will happen. You are going to get promoted, or married or whatever you want. It’s all a matter of time. I picture life as a train station where every stop is a new station in our lives. And what we do on trains while travelling? We get to know new people, read more, work and sometimes we might think better of what to do in the next stop.

What I mean is that instead of sitting and waiting, think and plan! So when whatever you wait for is there, you don’t have to waste time and get to enjoy it till the max.! Keep your patience full! 😀

What are you waiting for? Are you patient or can’t wait ?! 😀

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

The Strategy of New Experiences

Who doesn’t get bored of our daily routine? I’ve been always stuck in the routine and as any student life, it’s really hard to get out of this routine cycle. However, I kind of developed this idea of trying new stuff and I actually loved it!

I started from simple way of changes to kind of major ones. From physical changes up to actually internal changes.  For example, I started tasting new food that I’ve always said that I’ll never try and that I hate. I told myself that how can I hate something, at least when someone asks my for the reason I would have an answer. Therefore, I decided to taste food I’ve never even bothered to try before, to actually find out that I was completely wrong to ignore it and hate some of it. Even my way of living, I started to try being healthier and try going to the gym and try sports. Believe me! If you asked anyone about me last year, especially my mum, they would say that I was so lazy! Especially at holidays and weekends. I was like hold on a minute, if I am actually lazy to fetch the remote control from the coffee table in front of me, then what am I going to do when I am an adult with dozens of responsibilities? How can I even get to move to get these responsibilities and my life on track? I even decided to change my hair style that I’ve been having for as long as I remember and even ended up dying my hair. Well at least now when someone asks about dying their hair I would have an experience to share and know from it.

Those were the simple stuff. Let’s get really to the part of me changing? I started to laugh more, talk more, socialize more. I am no longer shy or get angry and upset easily as I used to be 2 years ago I guess. I realized that I want to survive and success this life I should have both the white and black side and control which part is shown for who, when and where. I understood that if I feared strangers and people in general from now, I won’t achieve my dream of at least a successful career life later on life. I won’t simply enjoy my life the way I dream of. I started reading more, learning more. I started to focus more on my targets and aims. And learning can’t come without trying, making mistakes and learning from them. That’s why trying new stuff has became a main target in my life. I started to care more about leaning new languages and cultures. I want to feel engaged in every way that is useful and not harming myself in a stupid way or a kind of a selfish, irresponsible one.  It’s only one life to live, laugh and enjoy.

Therefore, when you have the chance to try something new which is actually harmless. GO ON! Think of your CV and your next time when you speak with your friends or scrolling your photo album. Think of what you might add up to those! 😀

What new experiences you wish to have?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx