World of imagination

Have you ever wished that ones you close your eyes and open them again you find yourself somewhere else? Some other place that is better reality but as real as it?

Here’s The Solution!

It’s not some kind of spell, but it works let’s say 99% of the time.

Way #1 (the most efficient and easiest way, at least for me :D):

MUSIC. One word, 5 letters of magic. Ones I get into a situation that was so exhausting and it’s not over yet. I play music, I have the play list that includes all my favorite songs, but I have other playlists for reading, relaxing, working out or even meditation! They act like my painkillers actually ๐Ÿ˜€ Like after a long day or before I sleep or at the car, plane,train,bus. Sometimes it’s when I want to escape but in my place. That’s getting weird, isn’t it? Okay let me explain. Like now while writing this blog. I am sitting with my parents, they are watching the TV and I want to focus on my writing so I am playing jazz, with 88% volume in my headphones. Or play music and imagine what I would love to be doing right now instead of being here. Although I actually still keep an eye to the surroundings so I don’t look like a fool when I get called ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€

Way #2

BOOKS, MOVIES, TV SHOWS. Those ones preferable to be at the night while everyone thinks you are either asleep or simply no one is there, so you can enjoy your world of imagination, also so you have nothing else to do and wake up to the real world of troubles :D. It’s usually better if you had some background soft music while reading or watch your movie or tv show with headphones or with volume that blocks the world for at least a moment and also try to keep checking the medium like ( god forbidden) maybe a thief is breaking into your house while you just there enjoying ๐Ÿ˜€

(Those ways I guess most of us do, but just take care always of the surroundings around you while playing the music or so on. God forbidden, if something happened you can notice and take action ๐Ÿ™‚)

Way #3

LEAVE HOME SWEET HOME. Well, if you can :D. Like most of the time I can’t leave the house because of transportation troubles or so on. But I try always to go out if I can and I know that this hangout will please me and make me happy. Like if I know that this going out might just not help or make me more upset I just skip it. Well, I get judged that I am depressing and so on by my family because I don’t usually leave the house, but honestly I tried to explain myself zillions of times until I just got tired and gave up anyway. My point is, people’s judgment can’t always be accurate so it’s only you and people who knows the real truths who can somehow judge. Just don’t listen to the negative vibes so much :D. Go to the amusement park, the museum the cinema. Those places which have a story to tell or make you live their story ๐Ÿ˜‰ :D.

Those are my main 3 ways anyway ๐Ÿ˜€ I have more but believe me that might take blogs and pages :D.

If you want more ways though, just let me know in the comment ๐Ÿ˜‰ :D.

If you also have ways comment them below for others to know ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

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Everything comes on time

Most of usย getย stressed over late relationships, success, marriagesย and so on easily. As much as I think that stressing is such a healthy thing to do and have but why?

I’ve been always concerned about everything in my life, Like my grades, my next relationship or friendship and lately my career. It’s actually pretty normal to get stressed over things and especially late things. But let’s think of it more closely. Does your concern and stress speed up or fix things? Well, I don’t think so. Therefore, I think it’s better to think of those things or ways to fix them better!

I believe that patience and calmness are gifts, but more important that some people have them but they don’t know their existence! I’ve spent my whole life just until this year stressing and having no patience. This year I decided that I will not worry or stress myself at any cost, because when I stress things go wrong. Therefore, I started to train myself on patience and calmness even in hard situations so I can handle them as much as I can and ย don’t lose control. I know that might seem hard and sometimes impossible in some severe situations when being calm is that last thing you can do, but just try. I mean whatever happens is our fate whether we accept it or not it’s going to happen, all we can do is trying our best to make things better in the most possible way.ย ” Wishing for the best expecting the worse.. ๐Ÿ˜€

So be patient as much as you can! Whatever you want to happen will happen. You are going to get promoted, or married or whatever you want. It’s all a matter of time. I picture life as a train station where every stop is a new station in our lives. And what we do on trains while travelling? We get to know new people, read more, workย and sometimes we might think better of what to do in the next stop.

What I mean is that instead of sitting and waiting, think and plan! So when whatever you wait for is there, you don’t have to waste time and get to enjoy it till the max.! Keep your patience full! ๐Ÿ˜€

What are you waiting for? Are you patient or can’t waitย ?! ๐Ÿ˜€

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Do we actually search for troubles?

It doesn’t matter who we are or how our life goes. It doesn’t matter if we are really rich or poor, hard workers or lazy, have such an awesome life and people we love or alone broken and sad. Even if we have no troubles, we will still search for the trouble.

That’s actually what keeps our life and minds healthy, worry. I’ve had some friends and relatives who told me ones that if they don’t have an enemy or troubles, they can’t enjoy living. I actually agree to the concept that we should have at least have one thing to keep us sad or a goal to stress over to reach. That way we can balance our emotions, because if we reached to the max limit or satisfactory in our lives, we will have no reason to wake up the next morning.

However, as I mentioned above the reason for this to keep us running after a goal in our lives, to balance our emotions not to live the drama life or the life of celebration 24/7. Because both ways of maximum happiness or sadness will lead to an end which might be going crazy or even death.

Therefore, I don’t agree with people who just keeps on putting pressure on themselves just to keep their mind busy and eyes red of less sleep or crying. I am a person who admires the smile, which I guess that’s a gift from god. I don’t like bring sad or angry for more than it needs. I don’t keep running the movie of what incident that happened today in front of my eyes for the next week so every time I remember I get more angry or sad. Off course I don’t forget the lesson I learnt that day, but still I don’t make a list of enemies who I plan for getting rid of them day and night. I believe that we all deserve a balanced satisfying life. Neither by the laughing or crying all the time. Honestly, I get better use of that time I cry at by finding solution to make me less cry ๐Ÿ˜‰

Like I remember the last time I’ve shed a tear was 2 years ago. I don’t even remember the reason as much as I learnt the lesson. I learnt that at this point it’s either I can take responsibility of my decision and learn to depend on myself more than anything or anyone in this life or I will always stay helpless and cry. I still up till now remember that lesson as many others, and since that time instead or cursing my luck and crying I remember that one time I promised myself to take responsibility and that in every bad thing there’s a hidden good thing in the future. Because at the end of the day, our choice and paths are what drive us to where we are. As the famous quote says ” Instead of cursing darkness, light a candle” ๐Ÿ™‚

Remember that as much as you cry you have to laugh. We all want that life of no black hearts and hate, but we won’t find this one until we stop worrying more than living. Let’s start by ourselves and make our lives easier than it ever was. ๐Ÿ˜‰

What’s the most important lesson you’ve ever learnt in life?

Do you actually search for troubles? Think of this one deeply ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Watching – Action= Failing

There’s a quote that says that watching successful people teach us success. That’s a true quote in my opinion but some people only watch and don’t apply what they see.

We are always surrounded by successful stories everywhere, either in real life or TV. However, only small number of us take action of what they see. In that case, I can say that this quote can cause failing not success and learning. How many of us watch TV shows or movies of successful stories in many types and ways and wish they were instead of the actor or actress so they can have the same life. Let’s make this clear, Wishing won’t make you have that life you want. It’s doing!

Sometimes I think of watching it without learning or at least enjoying, if it’s a TV show or movie, as a waste of time. I know you might be saying now that I am a weirdo and boring.Don’t worry, I actually say that sometime too ๐Ÿ˜€ But Let me tell you what I think of and then you decide if I am a weirdo or practical :D. It’s only one life that we are gonna live and we have to make that one life enough for everything.

I think of life as 2 ย jars. One for reality, where our home, family, friends, relations, career or school, like everything we live and pass by in real life. The other jar is where our hopes, dreams and wishes are available. ย Both jars have so many charms and beads, I always try to take from my hopes and dreams jar to my reality jar. As to make my dreams come true and I take from my reality jar most of my broken beads and charms to the trash, so I can have a better life that I wish for. However, doing this is not that easy because there are a huge distance between jars and the trash. This distance is the distance of working hard, believing and getting rid of all the bad memories or things that might break me and take a space that might a charm of the dreams jar can occupy. When I said waste of time, I meant the time where I stop in the middle of my way. That way can be so long if I stopped more than I walked or even ran. The reasons that might stop us are known. They might beย fear, anger, sadness or wasting time. So if achieving your goal or becoming that person you’ve always wished for while watching others can be done as fast as you can so why stopping. Off course you will stop, that’s obvious but what is not obvious is stopping more than usual.

That’s why watching without action will lead you to stop a lot and might make you stop forever if you didn’t continue. And always know that whoever successful person you are watching, they are not better than you. You might be better actually ๐Ÿ˜‰

What does you jar of hope and dreams contain by the way :D?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Surround yourself with happy thing (maybe people sometimes)

I know that the title seems weird (not the first time though) but as they say don’t judge a blog by it’s title :D. we all have that mood when we are so pissed off, sometimes even with no reason. Some of us call their beloved ones to tell them what’s wrong. Lately, I found that might not be the best solutions.

I figured out that those people we call, it doesn’t matter how much they love you or you love them, are also humans who have troubles and pissed just like you. If they love you much they would listen to you but that might make them more sad or annoyed but they won’t tell you. Others will shut you or excuse for anything just to hang the phone up. Therefore, the best thing is to keep each other’s negative energy and anger separated.

So I said to myselfย wait a minute.. If people can’t help (most of the time), then what about things? ย What about my cheer up playlist? Happy Movie list? ๐Ÿ˜€

I started keeping my favorite music in a place that whenever I want it I get it, like phone USB, and so on. I started organizing my Movie CDs of folders on PC by my favorite, happy ones first. Same with my closet, accessories, BOOKS! Those are my REAL escape. I also started collection pillows and pillow cases. I know that you might think I am a weirdo now, but i found that when I sleep of sit with a comfy pillow or favorite pillow with it’s case beside my kicking it, sleeping on it, relaxes me so much :D. Perfumes as well proved to change moods. So I always try to buy those perfumes that when I sniff them I feel like ” THAT’S THE ONE!” :D.

To sum up the tips that blog has on how to basically make yourself happy or at least satisfied:

  • Music
  • Movies
  • Books
  • TV Shows
  • Favorite Clothes, pillows, perfumes and so on.
  • Don’t bother people because they will never care for you as you do ๐Ÿ˜‰

Any other tips :D?? I’d love to know as well as everyone else ๐Ÿ˜€

Always welcome to the corner,

Menna Xx

Enjoy a book but don’t live it

Reading is such a joy that most of us can’t resist. Currently, I am reading such a great book that I actually read it everyday, day and night, at every moment i can open it.

( In case you want to know the book’s name it’s Red Queen with it’s series, I actually enjoy it so much)

Some books gives me the sensation of actually dumping my life to live between their pages. Like whenever i am reading and duty calls like school or work I curse under my breath. Back to the real world! It’s like those books’ fantasy and exciting life grabs me along and all I have to do is obey. Like whenever I leave the book I feel itchy yo get back to it, as if it drugged me with it’s magic. I know it’s a weird expression but that’s how it exactly makes me feel.. Does anyone feels the same like me?? ๐Ÿ˜€

However, that can’t last long especially when you reach the last page of the book or worse, the whole series. You want to know when it really aches?! WAITING! Who doesn’t hate waiting for the next book of the series or the next season of the TV Show or the next movie in the series. It’s that annoying waiting to know how your favorite people in your favorite world.

At the end of the day, the least you can relate your life to the life you read about is a wallpaper on your phone or PC. Therefore, don’t get engrossed in a world of fantasy and imagination, just enjoy it to the max. Enjoy it enough to shift your mood in a bad day but not to shift your world and make it full of deadline delays. Instead, try to benefit from the book. Take from it a words to use in your next lesson or even date :D. Or even know a trick ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€ Just learn anything from it and enjoy it but don’t let it affect your life as if it’s an addiction.

What is your favorite book?? Do you feel the same though?? ๐Ÿ˜€

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

we don’t have to be understood 24/7

God created us in differently, so we are not like each other to know what each other think. We are not twins or triplets to get what the other person is thinking.

Most people , and me myself, search for that person who can understand us or wish that people understand our actions and talking. Let’s get this straight! the only person who might actually understand you is either your twin or soulmate and if you are lucky enough it would be your partner. However, they won’t also completely understand you all the time. Therefore, you don’t have to worry about explaining your actions or talking as long as it makes your life easier . It’s not a law that when you say your opinion about something or someone to say why unless you are asked or want to show your point of view. There is also no punishment in losing someone over a misunderstood and that you have to fight to reason why you did this.

Life is so short to look in the teeny tiny detail of our life and give a reason for it to people. If you followed or unfollowed someone on social media you don’t have to say the whole story behind it. Enjoy your new haircut or look, you don’t have to explain why you dyed your hair pink to each person you meet for at least a week. Like what’s the point? There are more important stuff in life to actually state a reason for and let people understand like your achievements or high marks. Those ones are the ones that you should say how and why you got them so people can be inspired and move on to higher places in their life.

I also hate when people just think that they are right and everyone else is wrong or they know everything not like anyone else. Sometimes, that can be a prove of how stupid they are. Like if you want to learn more and be the best as you want you have to open your mind and understand everything around you even if it makes you wrong. It’s fine to be wrong by the way, as long as you learn and correct it.

Misunderstanding can end up as a fight and the end of a relationship. At the point, I think it’s great to end the relationship as fast as you can but if the misunderstanding is huge like about a way of life, one doesn’t respect the other or so on. Because it doesn;t matter how long you will try to fix it up, it will end up with a fight.

At the end of the day what I am trying to say here that don’t expect people to understand every move you do and sometimes they are going to blame you, just don’t listen to them. Keep moving on. You are not obligated to explain yourself as long as you see you don’t need to.

Do you ever get annoyed when people just see that they are right and they are actually wring and fight for that wrong concept they have ?

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

Let’s call for break

With all what’s going around from new events changing the world or small even life ones. We all deserve a break even if for a minute that barely can noticed to have a quick look on what we’ve done so far.

For example,if you are at work or school make the world stop for a minute to restore your inner energy and peace. I can hear you asking how do I stop the world around me? That’s stupid! Well, apparently not. Take a moment and forget about who you are where you are or what you are doing. Just a moment, it can be a second, a minute or even 30 minutes as long as you can afford. All you have to do in this moment is to find an inner peace in you, forgetting everything.. well it’s better not to forget your timing or that you are still a human being who needs to stop at a point to complete your life. That’s my type one of mini breaks which is kinda of a meditation way.

Type 2! Try to always keep your favorite drinks at home or work or like around you. Drinking or eating something you like even if a biscuit or a cup of coffee can ย help you to cop up with the day without any of the famous words ” Gosh! That’s so boring” or ” I am so sick of this” because actually I found out that pressure can only reduce your energy and level of satisfaction. Keep always the spirit of ” let’s do this !” or ” It’s just about to be done” if it’s that boring actually because when you pretend to love the thing you do or have, makes you enjoy it more! My mum used to always tell me to take care of my dolls and toys because they actually feel and sense and if you treated them badly they will be broken fast. So is the human soul and body, if you didn’t give it the time it needs to heal or have some rest it will be ruined just that easy and that fast.

I don’t think you need to know about the long breaks because we actually know them, which are THE HOLIDAYS! However, you don’t have to go to the Caribbean or such a costly place to enjoy your holiday or long breaks. Sometimes, I don’t get the chance to travel some where or even leave the house, but I try always to have the break by movie nights, learning new cooking recipes or draw or anything that make my spirit up and happy.

Just remember to always take the break because your body and soul are like the machine, if you of didn’t take good care of them they will be worn out easily.

What was your best holiday so far??

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

It’s okay to miss them

Most of us have that person we miss somewhere in the world. Sometimes it might be in our imagination or even gone forever. Most of the time we wish we could see them in real instead of cameras or video calls. I am here to ย tell you that it’s okay to miss somebody. It’s even more okay to cry over them. I won’t tell you like other people to stay strong and everything is going to be fine, because actually that’s a thing that no one owns or knows except you.

Missing somebody can be painful and more painful if you might never see them again. It’s okay to wet your pillow at night but still it’s your decision to make. It’s your decision to be strong or weak. It’s you who can make things fine or worse everyday. I know that moving on is hard and for some people it’s almost impossible. Just think about it and ask yourself these questions. Is it worth it? Will crying everyday will get that person back? ย Is that affecting my life?? If your answers are No No Yes then you got to STOP! As long as the sun is still shinning, be grateful!

Remember them with good, even if they did the bad to you. Don’t let their memories break you, just learn from it. It’s a chance, you don’t lose people over fights everyday :D. Don’t be scared of losing them or being separated. Be who you are, even if you want to panic over them, go on! But just do a favor to people and don’t panic over them in public :D.

Spaces between lovers and friends can be hard, but if they honestly love and appreciate each others it would be the relief. It’d be like when you know you are having a party next week and you are preparing for it the whole week. When it’s time, it’s the best feeling you can have. Keep in mind how happy you would be when you see them and believe me, it’s worth the waiting.

I have no much to say this blog because it’s all about feelings that can’t be described in words, only in hearts and souls. I hope This blog helped you a bit though..

Do you have any tips as well?? Have you met your missed one soon?? How was the meeting??

Always welcomed to corner,

Menna Xx

An E-mail to my future self

Hello my future self,

Do you remember me?? Off course you do! Basically I am the older version of you. The original.

I hope everything is going well and that you are having that life you’ve always wished for and worked for every day.I can’t wait to know what happened but I wish they are all good stuff and will be impressed by who you became. I am at the time of you struggling but don’t worry I won’t give up on you. I am still working towards what we’ve always dreams of. I know that I won’t get a reply for my letter, but I want you to know that I have so much questions for you. But it’s okay, I’ll wait for them ๐Ÿ˜€

I want you to know that changing is okay. That’s how life goes just keep changing to the best you can be. Oh! Please Don’t listen to whatever people tell you from being useless or hopeless. You can’t satisfy everyone, therefore you are the one who you should satisfy. Remember that I’ll always be here working and supporting you till I get to the point of meeting you. Be happy and positive, enjoying your life.Can I ask you a favor too?? Would you please surround you with people who love you before you loving them.

I think I am have nothing more to say, but all I can say is that I am waiting on fire to meet you so please make me pleased with who I’ll meet. ๐Ÿ™‚

Love,

Your old little version ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€

Write yours too and see what you got be writing to your future self ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€

(Tag me please to see them if you can ๐Ÿ™‚ )

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx