An E-mail to my future self

Hello my future self,

Do you remember me?? Off course you do! Basically I am the older version of you. The original.

I hope everything is going well and that you are having that life you’ve always wished for and worked for every day.I can’t wait to know what happened but I wish they are all good stuff and will be impressed by who you became. I am at the time of you struggling but don’t worry I won’t give up on you. I am still working towards what we’ve always dreams of. I know that I won’t get a reply for my letter, but I want you to know that I have so much questions for you. But it’s okay, I’ll wait for them πŸ˜€

I want you to know that changing is okay. That’s how life goes just keep changing to the best you can be. Oh! Please Don’t listen to whatever people tell you from being useless or hopeless. You can’t satisfy everyone, therefore you are the one who you should satisfy. Remember that I’ll always be here working and supporting you till I get to the point of meeting you. Be happy and positive, enjoying your life.Can I ask you a favor too?? Would you please surround you with people who love you before you loving them.

I think I am have nothing more to say, but all I can say is that I am waiting on fire to meet you so please make me pleased with who I’ll meet. πŸ™‚

Love,

Your old little version πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

Write yours too and see what you got be writing to your future self πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

(Tag me please to see them if you can πŸ™‚ )

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

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Non-medical painkillers

I guess that from the title you thought that you will find some kind of groovy recipe with natural seeds and plants that ends up understanding nothing from what you read and end up calling your mum for a solution or doctor.

Well, don’t worry it’s such an easy understandable ways that you might be using everyday or right now! The type of painkillers I am talking about is the modern easy ways of leaving all of our lives behind our backs for seconds. Having a break from all the tension we pass by.

Fake Human Relations war

We all try to keep everyone satisfied. We try to keep everyone by our side. Unfortunately, that’s impossible.

For me it looks like a war. Sometimes I sit by myself thinking, why can’t everything be easy?? Why can’t we just be true and happy?? 

Human nature is greedy. We technically want everything for the minimum loss. That can’t happen because we can’t have everything. Same with people. We want everyone to be our friend. We want that perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. We want those awesome parents. We want those ideal people we see in movies and tv shows. But basically, they don’t exist. We expect much that makes us hardly accept the truth.

And when I said in the title ” Fake Human Relations War” I meant it. Because if the relation is true there won’t be a war. I mean by war when you do everything to make this relationship works or to stay friends. If that relation is true you won’t have to do anything to survive it. 

Those relationships and friendships are costly too. I don’t mean costly as “money” I mean in “emotions” “pressure”. They keep us doing the maths all the time and thinking about our next action or word hundreds of times before actually doing them. That makes so much pressure on our feelings, emotions and sometimes they can cost us our jobs, other people who truly love us, and more awesome physical things..

Honestly, don’t run after someone you want. The person who loves you so much and wants you will try everything to reach you, he will help you when u need it without asking the help. He will forgive you most of the time. Moreover, you will have a free relationship or friendship with no hate or calculations of your actions and it will be fun! 

Don’t search for perfection. Search for peace, love and more importantly happiness πŸ™‚

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna xx

Be calm no matter whatΒ 

Calm is a word of peace and happiniess. Who doesn’t want to live calm ?? I think non !

With all the stress we are exposed to everyday, the stress of living is getting more and more everyday and if you didn’t stay calm it will affect your own life that you are stressed about. The question here is How ??

It’s hard to stay calm around such a missy situation but believe me what makes it worse is stressing. So try always to focus of the solution of any problem stop regretting and blaming. When you have the urge to cry for example, cry ! Yes cry. Don’t say that no I am strong and so on. You are strong that’s true but you are a human with a limit and feelings also remember that. 

Try to have a holiday from everything once in a while (even from your phone). So you can empty yourself from all the bad things and stress you passed through so far and continue in your full power. 

Don’t stress yourself for someone. Remember that it’s your life that your living not people’s. It also happens one time so enjoy it to max. However, live as if you live forever and work as if you die tomorrow.

Keep only positive vibes around you. That’s the key. Don’t let anything or anyone take you down. 

Finally, enjoy sticking to the people who care for you and love you and you have the same feelings for them. Keep only the happy things surround you. And make your choices wisely and what makes you satisfied.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Search for fun

Vacation is about to be over and school is around the corner. So I decided to seek for some fun even if it’s just simple thing or people call it silly.


I am going to year 11 and I still play those  video games like delicious Emily and dinner dash πŸ˜€ sounds silly I know but believe me this is from the stuff that makes me Happy.

I also read some sweet books before sleeping. It doesn’t have to be informative books or reading it for gaining information or sad story. Offcourse it’s a good thing but sometimes it makes you not interested in completing it. So I started reading sweet books that have some good words to learn and takes me to another world, giving me the chance to forget all that I passed by the whole day.

Most important is music ! Yup ! Music is my soul medication actually – that’s how I call it- sometimes I create a world that I wish I could live in real life and make stories in my imagination but I enjoy it as it maybe seem wierd I know πŸ˜€

Don’t give up a source that gives you happiness. Don’t care for who call it silly or wasting time. As long as it makes you happy then it’s not a waste of time, it’s not silly and worth doing it even once in a while πŸ™‚

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Don’t be upset and look forward

All of us went through some hard times and problems. I am sure those problems differ due to lifestyle and way of living. And maybe that huge problem you have when you talk about it with your friend or colleague seems to silly to that person maybe because he lives a harder life or older etc.

That past few years I had so many problems. We all have problems in each age. For example, when we were young it was that we hated school for a teacher or a reason that we were scared to go and our problem was going to school. When we grew a little bit it was a matter of games or hanging out. Reaching the teenage, come the relationships problems , partying and so on. Then reaches the adulthood and out problems comes to be getting married, finding a job or having loads of money. 

Maybe others have problems of just surviving life. As I say problems comes in all shapes and sizes.

I need you also to know that finding that friend who can lean on is hard so don’t trust any one tells you that he is your friend. Don’t let also romantic relationships spoils your fun life or your future.

Speaking of future, have you ever asked yourself if what you are doing now will affect you in future? Will building a hate relationship with someone can cause bad influence on your future life or quitting this job or way of life can cause me troubles?

There are 3 laws in taking decisions that you should know. Don’t make a great decision while you are angry. Ask yourself twice before taking an action that may change the whole thing. Don’t rush ! 

Also know that what matters at the end is you! Because if anything bad happened to you it may affect the people who you care for them. It might also affect you! What I mean with you is yourself, a one life decision can make you happy and all the people around you happy as well as God ! And other can ruin everything! So be careful.

Always look to the future not only what happened or still happening..

I hope that one was helpful πŸ™‚

Take care everyone πŸ™‚

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Truth can hurts..

We all live that life without knowing what’s coming next..


Sometimes, I ask myself what if this whole thing is just a dream. What I am don’t exist in real life and that’s just a game or a tv show. I know it sounds crazy but I really have that feeling every time I think about my existence.. 

We live a big lie since we get to be born. We wish we could grow faster to be like mummy and daddy. As a kid we dream to grow up for example to get a lot of money to buy the games we like, we thought that’s the real dream and it’s that easy. Then growing as student in primary school , we dream of growing up so we can not do anymore homework or tests. Then growing up being teenagers, dreaming of that life of money, work, driving cars. We get to be so ambitious about that actually. Then we hit the adulthood to find something completely untrue and wired. 

We come to ask ourselves” was that really what I’ve been dreaming of??” ” is that the life of happily ever after I thought of having it??”

Life is hard but to get through it you should be harder, tougher, going through it like the fire gets through the metal to melt it, shaping it.

I spend so many nights thinking of that big lie I had back when I was young and start laughing till I cry. I have those words in my mind, saying not to give up. I wish one day I would listen to them or at least , believe them..

However, what I learnt so far that never make my pillow full of my tears at night. Never show my weakness. It’s hard to do I know because we all want someone to feel we are broken and hurt to help us. But unfortunately, I am working on it. I couldn’t find that person yet to show my tears or hurt. I hope to find that person soon. But still a wish or a hope, till I reach it I will pass through many things, many heartbreaking moments and refreshing happily moments. Even if I found that person. He is still a human who can’t just stop my life at. 

I know that truth hurts, especially when it shows a good thing’s badness.. 

Keep going because nothing deserves, because there is an end to the road we walking. What matters is how we end it and if the way we ended it will keep our names clean, giving people a good memory of ourselves..

It’s the never-give-up theory that you should keep it in your mind!

You have a lot to do and show this world. And you can do it on your own! Don’t stop your life to a person or anything! Life is going on so is you!

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Say hello to holidays !!


Finally, my school days are over by today. It’s time to celebrate ! Right ?? But, what happens after celebration?? Like shouldn’t I find something useful to do for the rest of my free days ??

Well, that’s what I was thinking about like a week ago when I realized that school work is over. Time for another type of work. That work which gives you more experience that books in my school library does. πŸ˜€

I thought of different stuff that might be helpful and thoughtful for you and me as well, I mean let’s consider this as a thinking out loud together for 

The list of options and ideas for this summer:

As we mentioned summer then we should mention sea, beach and pool and that’s my type of celebration I think after chilling at home for like 2 or 3 days or maybe more πŸ˜€

Then comes to reading some books that might be useful and exciting. What about some series and movies so by the end of this holiday you would have seen a huge number of shows so when you talk with someone about TV or stuff , you will be 99% understanding what’s going on πŸ˜€

I mean for me it’s a problem because due to projects and high school I got no time for series and so on that when my buddies talks about any of those I feel ” man, why do I feel I am from Mars or something πŸ˜€ ” 

What about making some money? I thought about making jewelry and selling them online or for the neighbourhood , or a shift at Starbucks or fixing stuff such as PCs , cars or bikes even! Also it can be an online legal business πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

What about sports and working our bodies, I recommend that as a priority actually πŸ˜€

Above all of that try to know more good people. Try to Socialize more. If you are shy or not socializing go on ! There’s nothing to fear about and remember I am always here if you need any help πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜€

At the end of the day, I wish to all of you a happy summer and I will update what I am going to be up to as always πŸ˜€

Good luck and stay blessed.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

You are unique !

Do you have a DNA or a fingerprint ? 

Then to begin with , you have something that non else have. Others don’t have your fingerprint or DNA , right ? πŸ˜€ 

Let’s talk about hobbies. God gave everyone one of us a gift that non else have. That gift doesn’t have to be a nice voice to sing or drawing. No no no , it’s all about your skills.

Yup! Your skills! Like how much you can convince someone of something, or how many things can you handle them together without any faults and so on. All of those are hobbies and special skills that not everyone has. 

All you have to do is just search for it. Or help your children to figure it out and to improve it πŸ˜€

That way it can help you to pick the most convenient job and to be creative in it πŸ˜€

Good luck πŸ˜‰

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

6 things to do before turning 19!Β 

We all deserve to enjoy our lives, so here is a list of 5 things you should do before turning 19 πŸ˜€

1- Go to theme park !

You should go to a theme park and play all games with all you love or even alone as much as u can πŸ˜€

2- Go camping:

Go on a wild trip somewhere , climb mountains, explore new places with all your friends and lover πŸ˜‰

3- Spend the holiday with your friends:

Spending sometime with out crazy buddies is the best memory and time can ever be spent. So make sure to plan a holiday for only you guys enjoying every little minute of it! πŸ˜€

4- Have a design of your future house in mind:

We all dream of a home sweet home to spend our days and nights at of our own design after our rooms at our parents’homes. So keep a design ready for your up coming home πŸ˜‰

5- Find your own special style and get more confident facing your own life after college :

Remember to always be confident, by being who you are really,being happy and hopeful.

6- Keep an album of all your memories for later πŸ™‚ 

So ! Have you achieved any of these yet ? Share your experience with us πŸ™‚ 

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx