Fed up yet?

We all have that person who makes you help him with their job/assignment and guess what! They don’t even remember you on normal bases. You are their favorite when a deadline is coming up or exams are just around the corner. There is that other type that uses you for who you are, like money, connections, intelligence and the worst part? They show that they care about you even though they are using you.

Those exactly the type of people who you always have the urge to punch them in the face. However, you don’t and mostly you end up doing what they wanted in the first place. I mean I am even mad writing about them, that my typing speed is faster than light now.

I know they are annoying, but they exist and they are not going to go away any time soon. It doesn’t matter how much you try to build your walls or make your boarders clear, they find their way e-v-e-r-y t-i-m-e. Therefore, don’t bother, just find a way to keep them within the space you want them to be.

I mean sometimes they actually need the help and it’s not affecting you, then so what. Helping is good, but not always though. In other words, just help when you can and when you can’t or will affect you then simply and politely just refuse. Some don’t understand words, right?! No problem! We are going to let them understand. Turn them down once, twice, probably they will catch up on the idea that you can’t or not able to help them. If after all of that they are still showing “disrespect” then unfortunately, their hearts might be a little broken. Just be brave and say it! Though try saying it in a good way. 😀

I know, not helping is a bad thing but sometimes, there are people who don’t need help but still they want to know what you got. Like that guy in college that would get straight As but still asks you about the answers of questions that he already knows, just to know what you got extra. Those are not help, that’s called time wasting. Instead, you could use that time to help someone who is really in need of help, like yourself or that other guy in the same class who really tries his best to learn the lesson but he can’t just keep up with the professor.

That was a long one, but at the end I hope I could show my idea in the best meaning of it. Some people really deserve to be helped and allowed in our lives. On the other hand, unfortunately, some don’t, they would just cause troubles more than anything. And my point here is to keep them away, for your own and everybody around you who you care about’s sake.

Always welcomed to the corner,

Menna Xx

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Don’t be upset and look forward

All of us went through some hard times and problems. I am sure those problems differ due to lifestyle and way of living. And maybe that huge problem you have when you talk about it with your friend or colleague seems to silly to that person maybe because he lives a harder life or older etc.

That past few years I had so many problems. We all have problems in each age. For example, when we were young it was that we hated school for a teacher or a reason that we were scared to go and our problem was going to school. When we grew a little bit it was a matter of games or hanging out. Reaching the teenage, come the relationships problems , partying and so on. Then reaches the adulthood and out problems comes to be getting married, finding a job or having loads of money. 

Maybe others have problems of just surviving life. As I say problems comes in all shapes and sizes.

I need you also to know that finding that friend who can lean on is hard so don’t trust any one tells you that he is your friend. Don’t let also romantic relationships spoils your fun life or your future.

Speaking of future, have you ever asked yourself if what you are doing now will affect you in future? Will building a hate relationship with someone can cause bad influence on your future life or quitting this job or way of life can cause me troubles?

There are 3 laws in taking decisions that you should know. Don’t make a great decision while you are angry. Ask yourself twice before taking an action that may change the whole thing. Don’t rush ! 

Also know that what matters at the end is you! Because if anything bad happened to you it may affect the people who you care for them. It might also affect you! What I mean with you is yourself, a one life decision can make you happy and all the people around you happy as well as God ! And other can ruin everything! So be careful.

Always look to the future not only what happened or still happening..

I hope that one was helpful 🙂

Take care everyone 🙂

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Truth can hurts..

We all live that life without knowing what’s coming next..


Sometimes, I ask myself what if this whole thing is just a dream. What I am don’t exist in real life and that’s just a game or a tv show. I know it sounds crazy but I really have that feeling every time I think about my existence.. 

We live a big lie since we get to be born. We wish we could grow faster to be like mummy and daddy. As a kid we dream to grow up for example to get a lot of money to buy the games we like, we thought that’s the real dream and it’s that easy. Then growing as student in primary school , we dream of growing up so we can not do anymore homework or tests. Then growing up being teenagers, dreaming of that life of money, work, driving cars. We get to be so ambitious about that actually. Then we hit the adulthood to find something completely untrue and wired. 

We come to ask ourselves” was that really what I’ve been dreaming of??” ” is that the life of happily ever after I thought of having it??”

Life is hard but to get through it you should be harder, tougher, going through it like the fire gets through the metal to melt it, shaping it.

I spend so many nights thinking of that big lie I had back when I was young and start laughing till I cry. I have those words in my mind, saying not to give up. I wish one day I would listen to them or at least , believe them..

However, what I learnt so far that never make my pillow full of my tears at night. Never show my weakness. It’s hard to do I know because we all want someone to feel we are broken and hurt to help us. But unfortunately, I am working on it. I couldn’t find that person yet to show my tears or hurt. I hope to find that person soon. But still a wish or a hope, till I reach it I will pass through many things, many heartbreaking moments and refreshing happily moments. Even if I found that person. He is still a human who can’t just stop my life at. 

I know that truth hurts, especially when it shows a good thing’s badness.. 

Keep going because nothing deserves, because there is an end to the road we walking. What matters is how we end it and if the way we ended it will keep our names clean, giving people a good memory of ourselves..

It’s the never-give-up theory that you should keep it in your mind!

You have a lot to do and show this world. And you can do it on your own! Don’t stop your life to a person or anything! Life is going on so is you!

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Say hello to holidays !!


Finally, my school days are over by today. It’s time to celebrate ! Right ?? But, what happens after celebration?? Like shouldn’t I find something useful to do for the rest of my free days ??

Well, that’s what I was thinking about like a week ago when I realized that school work is over. Time for another type of work. That work which gives you more experience that books in my school library does. 😀

I thought of different stuff that might be helpful and thoughtful for you and me as well, I mean let’s consider this as a thinking out loud together for 

The list of options and ideas for this summer:

As we mentioned summer then we should mention sea, beach and pool and that’s my type of celebration I think after chilling at home for like 2 or 3 days or maybe more 😀

Then comes to reading some books that might be useful and exciting. What about some series and movies so by the end of this holiday you would have seen a huge number of shows so when you talk with someone about TV or stuff , you will be 99% understanding what’s going on 😀

I mean for me it’s a problem because due to projects and high school I got no time for series and so on that when my buddies talks about any of those I feel ” man, why do I feel I am from Mars or something 😀 ” 

What about making some money? I thought about making jewelry and selling them online or for the neighbourhood , or a shift at Starbucks or fixing stuff such as PCs , cars or bikes even! Also it can be an online legal business 😉 😀

What about sports and working our bodies, I recommend that as a priority actually 😀

Above all of that try to know more good people. Try to Socialize more. If you are shy or not socializing go on ! There’s nothing to fear about and remember I am always here if you need any help 😉 😀

At the end of the day, I wish to all of you a happy summer and I will update what I am going to be up to as always 😀

Good luck and stay blessed.

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

6 things to do before turning 19! 

We all deserve to enjoy our lives, so here is a list of 5 things you should do before turning 19 😀

1- Go to theme park !

You should go to a theme park and play all games with all you love or even alone as much as u can 😀

2- Go camping:

Go on a wild trip somewhere , climb mountains, explore new places with all your friends and lover 😉

3- Spend the holiday with your friends:

Spending sometime with out crazy buddies is the best memory and time can ever be spent. So make sure to plan a holiday for only you guys enjoying every little minute of it! 😀

4- Have a design of your future house in mind:

We all dream of a home sweet home to spend our days and nights at of our own design after our rooms at our parents’homes. So keep a design ready for your up coming home 😉

5- Find your own special style and get more confident facing your own life after college :

Remember to always be confident, by being who you are really,being happy and hopeful.

6- Keep an album of all your memories for later 🙂 

So ! Have you achieved any of these yet ? Share your experience with us 🙂 

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Confidence blog

Hey there ! 🙂

Whoever you are, a woman, a man, a kid, a teenager .. 

I want to tell you that you are awesome.

Well maybe I don’t know you .. But that doesn’t mean that we are not friends 🙂 

Don’t take people’s words guaranteed , they don’t know the real you ! Non does except you !

And remember some roses looks beautiful but they are toxic. So your face don’t have to be beautiful , but your soul. Keep in your mind also that non is perfect so always know that you might have something others don’t have 😉 

You are beautiful ! Don’t let someone annoy you or control your life ! You are stronger and more precious than that !

At the end, I want you to be 100% sure that you are rare and awesome. Spread the message to everyone ! Let’s all appreciate the beautiful souls we have more than bank accounts and followers number 😉 😀

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

Celebs crush .. Umm do you think it counts ??

With all the respect to every celebrity, I am sure they are all having such a great message to give and have fans to support. However, some fans ( including me 😀 ) have some feelings that are more than just appreciation , maybe crush or love.

Last night, I found myself having crush on literately all celebs 😀 ( at least most of them) old and new ones ! Which drove me crazy. That me think of that isn’t a good thing. Celebs are humans like us. Whatever we did, unless crazy actions 😀 , we won’t be that noticed ! So whatever feelings I have more than appreciation and support won’t matter. 

I am a fan girl of many artists nowadays and old ones. I am a fan of MJJ, 5sos, little mix, Charlie Puth, and many more. I appreciate them all and love them so much. But my love doesn’t me following them everywhere, get upset if they fell in love or had new BFFs 😀

Come on ! They are just there away from our reach. All we can do is support and cheer. Letting them live a normal life 😀

I am proud of myself that I was that kind of girls who faint if they heard their celebs live or saw them 😀 I am just a normal person who claps and dance with the music. I’ve never even asked them for a selfie, but that’s because I never met them in real life with a chance to ask them for it 😀 . Even if I did I will try my best to as a sweet memory and good luck if I couldn’t won’t commit suicide 😀

So for all of the crazy lovers and sweet fans of every fandom over there! Try always to be who you are. Don’t make your wardrobe full of your favorite celebs shirts and clothes 😀 always keep your own normal clothes. Don’t get upset if your celeb dated another person 😀

Live your life, enjoying it as a normal super fan 🙂 and let faith give you the chance to meet your fav celeb 😀 

So you and your favorite celeb can live peacefully 😀 🙂

P.S: I am not against any concept, I am always giving my point of view that may help 🙂 

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

People talk a lot, but does this matter ?

Lately, I’ve been followed by people’s word. All is talking that I need to improve, I need to be better. 
Maybe I need to put some effort, but it’s not their business anymore. Like why would someone tell me you are good or bad?! Will that change me ?? If I am convinced with what I am doing knowing it’s true and perfectly cool so why would I care ! 

People became suddenly so free with no problems to take care of others and tell them to improve. I want to say one thing. Never change for someone ! You are awesome ! Maybe they are jealous and want to drag you down( I don’t mean 1D song 😛 :D). 

What your style is, what your personality is as long as it’s cool to you and not wrong then just stay who you are! You will realize by yourself what you need to change anyway. Non will know perfectly the best for you except you! Then maybe your family. 

So stay who you are ! I am proud of you ! Your close people are also proud of you! Above all you yourself should be proud of yourself and go forward! Never stop !

Welcome to the corner,

Menna Xx

Giving up ? You need to take another look actually.

Past days were headache. I had Mock Exams. Unfortunately,I didn’t get much of the grades I expected. I was upset and giving up but later I realized it’s a future that giving it up means ending it so soon. I also found myself angry for some silly reasons. I didn’t know why I would be, it’s just life!

  
Wondering around my room one day I found my old guitar full of dust and looks upset also. I totally forgot it. I really missed him. I played in this special one a lot of special songs, I had a dream one day of coming a guitarist or singer or whatever. That was Before I realize it’s just life that decided our fates, that the whole game isn’t 100% by our hands. 

Anyway I was upset to see it that way also. I picked it, cleaned it and played some notes. I felt I totally don’t know how to play it after I was everyday playing each and single song I loved. I was feeling really bad for losing a skill that if I could just be stronger not giving up easily I would be keeping it for the better and maybe I could achieve my dream. 

That point I knew that giving up is not a way to make me relax. But it’s committing suicide and killing all the little things that used to make our day of just thinking about it.

However, I now learned the lesson. I started playing again. This time I learned the lesson. You should also know it. Never give up! Believe me, you will regret so much.

Keep the faith…

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx

True Love ??

All of us search for the true love that will be forever and faithful. But how we could find this faithful love in a world which is not faithful. 

I’ve never been in a relationship, once tried but it started with failing before even beginning. I am a person who always look for the thing with the true meaning. 

  
Like what’s the meaning of having a boyfriend/girlfriend who I know that won’t complete. In addition of having a misunderstanding family. Like if I told them I had a lover they would do one of three things, maybe scold me for doing such thing , or make a fool of me or won’t care. 

I am thankful to God that he gave me the mind that make me realize the result of the next step I am going to do, so as to know if that will work or not.

However, I’ve met ones my true love but that was one night in my dreams. But that was because I slept after watching a romantic movie 😀 

So what is true love ??

True love from my point of view is having a person who is going to always be beside you whatever happened. Support you. Help you always. Understanding you. Think of you as if you are something really precious like a glass that should take care of. Because when the glass gets broken can never be back as it used to be. 

Most important of all of that is to cooperate with each other. Like if he is sick and for example he promised you before it to go out for dinner, just forgive him. The guy is sick ! 😀 same for the guy, if she can’t go out with you because she have exams , work or whatever. Don’t just say that she is no longer care for you and those words but appreciate her and support her 🙂

Respect also plays a great role, without respect, there is no love or even the word “Hi” between you or any person on earth 🙂

That’s why true love hard to be found. Even married people who marry for just love or money or any other reason but not true love. Their marriage fail. 

Also never say that word ” we are together always , we are immortal” until you are sure of what you say. Because the word “forever” is from the biggest lies on earth that we say always. That word can break your both Harry’s easily. Atleast if you know from the beginning it’s not going to  last forever won’t break so hard. 

What about you what do you think is true love ?? 🙂

At the end of the day, I hope all of us find that love somehow 🙂 . From the truths in this world is that nothing impossible 🙂 

Welcome to the corner,

Menna xx